Strippers or Escorts?

Strippers. I like the sleazy factor of the club, and too many things can go wrong with escorts. Police sting. Robbery sting. Doesn't look like her photos. Asks for more money. Giving away your address/phone and/or her place is a shithole. I don't want to stay and cuddle for an hour, and I rarely want multiple shots on goal with the same girl. In a club, I can recharge for a bit and find another girl. I'm strictly ITC. I have trust issues.

I haven't seen an escort in over 5 years but have done both throughout the years.

I started seeing escorts before there was online advertising and you had to find them though the phone book or a personal ad in publications like a newspaper or other type with adult personals. Those days were the real wild west of escorts where you didn't see what you were getting until they showed up. I had some great encounters and only go ripped off a couple of times. Back then the going rate was $150. Sure it was a lot for then but not the end of the world.

I discovered online escorts and was one of the first 500 members of TER. The reviews let you know what you could get and you could link to an online ad with pictures that were mostly accurate. I had my regular escorts and even dated a couple throughout the years. Dating them was fun because they didn't expect commitment to just them.

For strippers, I lived in the low mileage city of San Diego and you had the bouncer or manager watching you like a hawk most of the time. I'd get some quick secret feels when nobody was looking but not much. I didn't know what mileage was in a strip club until I flew to Tampa to see and escort I thought was hot for a 4 hour date. I mixed in some club visits and on my first private at a club called Pony Tails, the girl asked me why I wasn't touching her and placed my hands on her breast. It soon went from that to getting BJ's in VIP.

Escort prices have gone up pretty high these days so I can have fun in a club without the commitment you have with an escort. I have moved out of San Diego and enjoy clubs in my new city where mileage can be had. I have a bunch of girls that will let me have my way with them ITC.

In the end, I probably spend more than I did with escorts per month but it's a lot of variety with new girls always coming in. As you stated, both are fun.

Never had a stripper ask for my linked in page, that's why I stick with strippers.

For me, in the ideal case, there's no real difference. I am embarrassingly undangerous. Anyone who doesn't see that fairly quickly is probably too skittish to be doing sex work. We quickly settle into a routine where she comes to my place. Zero overhead cost to her, so much easier to agree on $ that she considers attractive.

Prefer escorts, once you have vetted them. Consistent. Build a rapport. No concerns with a bouncer interfering with the fun.

Furniture is usually better with escorts. Plus 30 minutes is better than 4 or 8 or 12 minutes and you’re your own DJ.

Its all about whether or not the girl provides GFE/PSE.

Its kind of an unfair comparison because theres a bunch of onlyfans girls and pornstars who are also escorts. Some famous OF girls may also be strippers, but it seems the famous ones usually arent.
You could even include some IG girls as being escorts.

Anyway it all depends on the girl and vetting her. The issue with escorts is the low price ones on websites like eros, even tryst, will often have pimps, and provide a mechanical experience. Yoi would need to find a good agency for escorts, or independent ones who will often require information for screening. And even then, agency or independent escorts could still have restrictive rules in the encounter but the same applies to dancers.

Escorts or strippers arent necessarily more expensive than the other but with strippers you have the option of getting cheap lapdances instead of needing to commit to at least $100-$200 with an escort.

This is The Ultimate Strip Club List, not TER. Enough said.

@gammanu95, it's a legitimate discussion. For MANY years I was strictly a strip club guy. Started OTC with some Vegas strippers I'd known for years. Good times at reasonable rates but none of them were FS.

Got in the escort game with a newbie friendly full body massage provider. A vetted escort is professional and can be a more relaxed pace with an opportunity for MSOG.

If the compare/contrast isn't of interest, scroll on by as they say.

Is everyone's escort experience at their own hotel room or home? No way to have fun on a lunch break from work? I've never tried an escort yet!

Most escorts prefer infall, where they or their service rent a hotel room. Some will do outcall, where they come to you. In my experience, most seem to prefer incall, I'm guessing because they have more control over the situation.

@Alfredo_Darke: "And once you've made an appointment, you're committed, even if you walk in and immediately realize it's going to be bad, you have to pay for the full hour."

That's crazy talk, right there. If I was to walk in and she's not as pictured in the ad, or cracked out, or whatever, I'd be leaving.

Correct me if I’m wrong, but in the US - it seems a lot more complicated to find an escort these days than say in 2010. Finding a stripper to do OTC is the same as it’s ever been, meet face to face and ask.

In Canada I prefer escorts in the US I prefer strippers.

I definitely prefer escorting to stripping. Both have similar annoyances but all of the BS, haggling, promising to pay for xyz and never doing such, and people being complete assholes, happens over the phone or over text when escorting rather than in-person at the strip club. (I’ve had an escorting client be aggravating in person like ONE time)

Plus it’s better money, and I hate how so much of the stripper job feels like begging. Escorting is so much easier, if they text me they’re interested, no need to sit and chat with them for ages just to ask for a dance and get rejected LOL. Sure, escorting is definitely riskier, but I also think it’s a lot more fun.

So this thread got me all curious. How would I find a legit escort? How do I know it's all real? I've seen escort ads that advertise that they'll do BJ, FS, etc., but how do they get away posting that? Unless those ads aren't real? Would love to know more about this. If anyone would be willing to share details with me here or in a DM, because being with an escort is something I've fantasized about but I just have so many questions and legal fears.

There are many sites, my favorite being TER (theeroticreview.com) It's a lot like TUSCL, except you review individual escorts instead of clubs. You get a break down of what they offer, and how good they are at it. TER seems to tend toward mid and higher end escorts, and if the girl is questionable, the reviews usually point that out. Nothing is guaranteed, but if a girl there has a lot of good reviews, that's a good sign.

Alfredo_Darke

I will play along and comment on your discussion and answer your question.

Q: Strippers or Escorts? So what do you think? Strippers or escorts, and why?

A: I think The Adult Industry Hobby of paying for sex is not limited to two options, each, stripper and escort has her own merit or reason for being.

I would refer you to Demosthenes (384 – 12 October 322 BC)
~ Greek statesman and orator of ancient Athens.

1. We have courtesans for the sake of pleasure.
2. Concubines for the daily health of our bodies, and
3. Wives to bear us lawful offspring and be the faithful guardians of our homes

In this list is the Greek view of woman in the classic age.

In today’s world we have:

1. High end escorts, centerfolds, actresses, starlets, pornstars, models, Strippers (ITC OTC) etc that provide PSE/GFE for the sake of pleasure.
2. Mistresses/Sugar Babies/Concubines; etc, for the daily health of our bodies.
3. Trophy Girlfriends/Wives/Baby Mamas to bear us lawful offspring, and be the faithful guardians of our homes.
4. Realistic Sex Dolls/Gynoids/Fembots, and Internet Porn and Instagram/Onlyfans “Models”, for kicks-and-giggles”.
5. Street walkers and 304s for when you are horny, drunk, high, depressed, bipolar or just plain stupid and crazy, poor and miserable and can’t afford anything else.

It is all about building a good business relationship with women and be willing to invest the time and money to Evaluate and Select the best woman for you

Foster a strong relationship with your chosen provider for long-term success and repeat business if that is your goal,

Just don’t forget that typically you get what you pay for…

Remember

“In this country, you gotta make the money first.

Then when you get the money, you get the power.

Then when you get the power, then you get the women.”

~ Cuban refugee Tony Montana (Al Pacino) in the movie Scarface (1983)

if you don’t have the money or you can’t afford it economically, mentally, morally, emotionally, physically, intellectually etc etc etc then don’t buy things you can’t afford…

If you have the money and can afford it mentally intellectually, physically, emotionally

Having sex with someone should make us feel alive and potent.

Having good sex isn't just fun, it keeps us healthy, sane and happy.

In any case; Let’s be careful out there there.

:D

I believe in the WYSIWYG principle. Strippers for me.

WYSIWYG?

What You See Is What You Get = WYSIWYG