Strippers or Escorts?
I started with strippers, but have been seeing escorts for like 20 years. I go back and forth on what I prefer.
Escorts have a lot of advantages. Once you find a good regular, it's a very straight forward process. You show up, she greets you with a smile and some crazy sex, you snuggle up after for the remainder of time, and then leave with a big smile on your face. But you have to go through a lot of losers to find that gem. And once you've made an appointment, you're committed, even if you walk in and immediately realize it's going to be bad, you have to pay for the full hour.
What I like about seeing strippers in a club, you can check out the girls live, you don't have to rely on photos or reviews by others. Take them back for a single dance and see how they respond. I also like the "unknown" factor, being not sure what you'll come up with. Sometimes it's disappointing, but other times you get your mind blown (among other things).
And I have to admit I kinda like the sleazy factor, walking into a public club, and getting intimate with a girl in a space that's not completely private. I used to frequent Mons Venus in its heyday, and I LIKED the fact that the dances were out in the open. I could check out which dancers had the most sensuous moves, and it was better than the stage show. The fact that some clubs are closer to bordellos these days makes them more interesting.
So what do you think? Strippers or escorts, and why?
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last commentStrippers. I like the sleazy factor of the club, and too many things can go wrong with escorts. Police sting. Robbery sting. Doesn't look like her photos. Asks for more money. Giving away your address/phone and/or her place is a shithole. I don't want to stay and cuddle for an hour, and I rarely want multiple shots on goal with the same girl. In a club, I can recharge for a bit and find another girl. I'm strictly ITC. I have trust issues.
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I haven't seen an escort in over 5 years but have done both throughout the years.
I started seeing escorts before there was online advertising and you had to find them though the phone book or a personal ad in publications like a newspaper or other type with adult personals. Those days were the real wild west of escorts where you didn't see what you were getting until they showed up. I had some great encounters and only go ripped off a couple of times. Back then the going rate was $150. Sure it was a lot for then but not the end of the world.
I discovered online escorts and was one of the first 500 members of TER. The reviews let you know what you could get and you could link to an online ad with pictures that were mostly accurate. I had my regular escorts and even dated a couple throughout the years. Dating them was fun because they didn't expect commitment to just them.
For strippers, I lived in the low mileage city of San Diego and you had the bouncer or manager watching you like a hawk most of the time. I'd get some quick secret feels when nobody was looking but not much. I didn't know what mileage was in a strip club until I flew to Tampa to see and escort I thought was hot for a 4 hour date. I mixed in some club visits and on my first private at a club called Pony Tails, the girl asked me why I wasn't touching her and placed my hands on her breast. It soon went from that to getting BJ's in VIP.
Escort prices have gone up pretty high these days so I can have fun in a club without the commitment you have with an escort. I have moved out of San Diego and enjoy clubs in my new city where mileage can be had. I have a bunch of girls that will let me have my way with them ITC.
In the end, I probably spend more than I did with escorts per month but it's a lot of variety with new girls always coming in. As you stated, both are fun.
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Never had a stripper ask for my linked in page, that's why I stick with strippers.
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For me, in the ideal case, there's no real difference. I am embarrassingly undangerous. Anyone who doesn't see that fairly quickly is probably too skittish to be doing sex work. We quickly settle into a routine where she comes to my place. Zero overhead cost to her, so much easier to agree on $ that she considers attractive.
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Prefer escorts, once you have vetted them. Consistent. Build a rapport. No concerns with a bouncer interfering with the fun.
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Furniture is usually better with escorts. Plus 30 minutes is better than 4 or 8 or 12 minutes and you’re your own DJ.
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Its all about whether or not the girl provides GFE/PSE.
Its kind of an unfair comparison because theres a bunch of onlyfans girls and pornstars who are also escorts. Some famous OF girls may also be strippers, but it seems the famous ones usually arent.
You could even include some IG girls as being escorts.
Anyway it all depends on the girl and vetting her. The issue with escorts is the low price ones on websites like eros, even tryst, will often have pimps, and provide a mechanical experience. Yoi would need to find a good agency for escorts, or independent ones who will often require information for screening. And even then, agency or independent escorts could still have restrictive rules in the encounter but the same applies to dancers.
Escorts or strippers arent necessarily more expensive than the other but with strippers you have the option of getting cheap lapdances instead of needing to commit to at least $100-$200 with an escort.
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This is The Ultimate Strip Club List, not TER. Enough said.
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@gammanu95, it's a legitimate discussion. For MANY years I was strictly a strip club guy. Started OTC with some Vegas strippers I'd known for years. Good times at reasonable rates but none of them were FS.
Got in the escort game with a newbie friendly full body massage provider. A vetted escort is professional and can be a more relaxed pace with an opportunity for MSOG.
If the compare/contrast isn't of interest, scroll on by as they say.
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