I hate the following:
#Women who promote themselves in lingerie but don't actually wear it when you meet them. It's just either outright lazy or obvious they just use it as a prop.
#Women working at strip club who don't tell you the price of girl drinks or leave you with a tab you never agreed on. This rarely happens to me now, it's more of a newbie to a club type of practice.
#Women who itemized what they will do in a lap dance VIP. Something like, I will remove my bra for 20, you can touch my breast for 20 more, I take my bottoms off for 40, etc. Basically by the time you tip them to get a full grind session (no extras), you are doubling the VIP cost. This is after you paid 150+ to just get into the VIP.
#Women who half heartedly grind on you when you asked them before the dance began what you liked. As soon as they feel the erection in your pants (nothing is outside) they immediately switch to air dance mode with some slight lap contact. Im not sure if this is just not wanting to do their job or assuming you want LDK. For the record I have never had LDK and don't really intend to. I would just go to an extras club or get an escort to finish the job.
#Literal ROBS who when given taken to the back for extras, try to upsell you after an agreed upon price or just don't give you what you paid for. The epitome of a greedy woman. I would prefer to just be turned down.
So what grinds your gears?


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I have been recently in a situation where I dealt with a huge rob the other night. There are some games which I deal with at Bliss and Paradise. But Synn COI has so many robs it isn't even funny.
I had a girl saying this "I only do VIPs" but this time she is going to do a lap. She promised a 3 for 40 dance, but what happened was is she cut the dance at the 2nd half and literally give me a bs air dance. She got mad at me for getting hands on too. This was the biggest bs i have ever dealt with and she had the gall to ask me for a tip even though she didn't deserve it.
The next person I asked for a lap said $300 extra on top of the regular VIP just to simply do a covered HJ in the back. That traumatic experience really killed my interests to go to clubs but I have some debts because of hitting up clubs lmao.
Anyways this experience has made me completely sour on the idea of going to strip clubs in general. If I am in CA, I will only check out spots in the IE or Orange County, because I feel COI spots are like LA and SFV clubs when it comes to mileage.
Costs are going up and the mileage is going down, so I am losing my trust in clubs at this point really tbh.
@basedtexafornian You’re down so bad lol
My only real gripe is not delivering on what was promised. That certainly happened in my early years
Are the offending dancers in point #1 in really strappy lingerie? Some stuff looks amazing but are a huge pain in the rear to put on/take off, especially in the dark 😭
@ nicespice, that's my complaint about escorts in particular. Online ads will show them wearing the most revealing lingerie, but if you set an appointment IRL, they just wear normal clothes. They don't even take requests if offered extra pay because they don't have the lingerie. It's typically baby doll gowns or stripper style bra and panties.
@ Clubfan81077, The irony of your home is that it could actually come into fruition. With prices going higher and mileage declining, a micromanaging system could be necessary. Personally I think that each stripper should be allowed a menu of services offered. Strippers choose the options they allow, and customers can pick from those limited options. I could make a discussion just in how to practically implement this system.
It would eventually fail because once customers realize that dancer A has multiple micro transactions on top of initial prices, they will choose less demanding dancers.
RE: “As soon as they feel the erection in your pants (nothing is outside) they immediately switch to air dance mode with some slight lap contact.”
Either I am going to the right places or you are going to the wrong places. I have not a dancer shy away from grinding on me after I’ve popped a boner.
I’m curious how common that is for other customers.
Agree with Lurker. The OP is going to the wrong clubs!
Every club will have ROB dancers, and every city will have scammer escorts. Its more likely if theyve got a boyfriend pimp, and even more likely if its a black boyfriend pimp.
@ Lurker, it doesn't happen often. Most of the complaints don't happen often, but they occur enough that I have had to be selective with who I get dances from and which escorts I bother visiting.
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