Why I voted for Kamala Harris but wanted her to lose

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Owlyoung_ggofv

I couldn't think of a decent title, so I just stuck with the facts. I decided to vote Blue this election. I am 90% Democrat on most issues. It doesn't matter because both my home state and current state are both blood red. I have always found that ironic, that someone with liberal values typically gets employed in predominantly Red counties. They should do research papers on this phenomenon. I believed Kamala was best for the country despite any personal misgivings I had.

Here's the deal: I am really tired on the educated black woman trope. Notice I said "trope" and not persons. All my life I have dealt with women (white and black) who have been preachy towards me. I acknowledge some of the criticism was warranted, but a lot of it was contradicted when I finally started working. There are a few complaints I could make, but the last thing I need is to be labeled incel, when that's not true at all. Incel is a derogatory term that has lost all original meaning. A man's ability to attain sex does not mean they are socially intelligent or even a well adjusted individual outside sexual encounters.

I am pointing out that many women talk down to men or belittle men who don't share their world view. Even when you propose viable counter arguments to their beliefs, you are treated poorly because you don't confirm the "modern idealization" of what a man should be. This happens more often with liberal white women than conservative women in my experience.

Its okay to be challenged, but be respectful. Don't speak to me as a child when I have worked to get to where I am and faced challenges on my own. Many of these women have family or relationships to fall back on and not take accountability. I don't have that option.

I will admit I have concerns about Trump, namely the new Government Efficiency counsel under Elon Musk. It's understandable to want to hold government accountable for spending, but that requires you actually know where the money goes. Cutting spending doesn't magically make systems work efficiently and cheaply. You are going to make some sectors operate worse because they barely received much funding to begin with.

Government is NOT A BUSINESS, sometimes positions are created to deal with problems that don't bear fruit until later. A private company may choose to just ignore the problem to save money. And often decisions are made months in advance before final orders can be given.

I have a job in the defense industry, and my main concern is that Elon Musk will just cut programs that have nothing to do with corruption in DC.

Tax cuts are great if you are making over $150, 000 a year for your family. I don't make that much per year. What I get back, even during Trump's first term, is basically just one mortgage payment. That's the main reason I see no reason to vote Trump.

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skibum609
4 mos ago

The OP finds it odd that someone with liberal values ends up in a Red State? I have Red State values and am not only stuck in a…

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misterorange
4 mos ago

@skibum - Same situation here. Hard right conservative living in NJ. And my district is known as THE bluest district in blue NJ. My town is a little…

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Muddy
4 mos ago

You know what speaking of Jersey did see Murphy Squawkbox? https://youtu.be/EaW6vBOvLqA?si=bSfwVTOqAjvpBFXl&t=124

That dude had NOTHING. There's just nothing there. Jersey came pretty close this cycle, it ain't…

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Icey
4 mos ago

In my experience women let me lead.

I cast a protest vote because Harris is basically Biden. Who is just Trump with the corporate media behind him.…

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Owlyoung_ggofv
4 mos ago

@Icey, I actually thought you would be my biggest detractor. To be fair, I agree with Democrats more often than Republicans. But even as a liberal,…

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Icey
4 mos ago

Owlyoung_ggofv both parties are two sides of the same coin. Identity politics are a form of oppression I think. Like lets ignore crumbling infrastructure, bad drinking water, unfettered…

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Icey
4 mos ago

Tariffs on imports are good in theory. The point us to make outsourcing production not as profitable as producing things domestically. The problem is we don't have the…

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Icey
4 mos ago

And peoples existence shouldnt ever be up for debate. Let people be who they are. Once you open identity up tp debate you give bigots a platform

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Nixur68
4 mos ago

I'm stunned,

Ukraine is fucked. Taiwan is fucked. Palestine is fucked. Labor rights or things like minimum wage or basic things like sick leave will be eliminated. Climate change…

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Nixur68
4 mos ago

Adding onto this,

I'm not a democrat, I don't watch CNN. Yes Kamala didn't do well but goddamn no one, I mean no one will like what the MAGA…

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StripClubXpert
4 mos ago

@Owlyoung_ggofv Your title said you voted for Comrade Kamala but you wanted her to loose. But then your entire article lists reasons why you wanted her to win. So…

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Icey
4 mos ago

The trash on here that support Trump show us one very important thing. Theyre dinosaurs trying to stave off extinction.

Confused old hypocrites being whoremongers while supporting conservative…

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Puddy Tat
4 mos ago

@Icey - Thanks for the protest vote in a swing state. We owe you one.

@OP - According to exit polls, black and Latino men have gone from Trump…

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ilbbaicnl
4 mos ago

So. why do you have so much trouble avoiding conversations with people you don't like conversing with? How do these evil women force you to listen to…

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Owlyoung_ggofv
4 mos ago

@Nixur68, I wanted Kamala to win because she doesn't care about porn or strip clubs. That was the cherry on top of more serious reasons why I wanted…

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Owlyoung_ggofv
4 mos ago

@StripClubXpert, it isn't so much that I wanted her (the person) to lose as much as I wanted the far left ideology to fail.

Icey and Puddy Tat…

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shadowcat
4 mos ago

I was talking to the gorgeous house mom at my favorite club today. She is black and voted for Trump. Biggest reason is that she does not think…

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Icey
4 mos ago

In real life. I just see women acting like women.

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Icey
4 mos ago

Even women with authority act like women if you come across as a man

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Nixur68
4 mos ago

@Owlyoung_ggofv I want Kamala to win because she isn't dumb fucking racist dictator clown. He's going to gut the economy, ruin the planet and the rest the world.

I'm…

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Puddy Tat
4 mos ago

^

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mogul1985
4 mos ago

@Icey: "The trash on here that support Trump.." Talk like this is a huge reason Harris lost. Insulting 80M, calling them Nazis and Garbage doesn't help.

Harris and…

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ilbbaicnl
4 mos ago

@Owl sounds like you're a black piller. So, reading the posts on TUSCL, you've concluded that men never, ever, ever have self-important, unrealistic expectations that women will…

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wld4tatas
4 mos ago

Walz had much better favorability ratings than Vance. The idea that his degree of perceived masculinity was a significant factor in Harris losing sounds truly delusional.

The ad…

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TheeOSU
4 mos ago

^ Delusional he says. This dipshit wrote the book on delusional!

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mogul1985
4 mos ago

"Walz had much better favorability ratings than Vance. " Well, it moot now. Tampon Tim can go back, and probably won't get re-elected. He was a true goober.…

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motorhead
4 mos ago

“The trash on here that support Trump show us one very important thing. Theyre dinosaurs trying to stave off extinction. “

Dream on Icee. If Trump can keep…

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skibum609
4 mos ago

Hey NIXUR? Ukraine sided with the Nazis in WW2 and the Palestinians are the equivalent of modern day nazis. So fucking glad you lost. Now lets get to…

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gammanu95
4 mos ago

@wld4testes: Caught you in another lie:

How JD Vance and Tim Walz' Favorability Compares After Debate

According to a post-debate poll by CBS and YouGov, voters felt tied between the…

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Icey
4 mos ago

Watch the maga maggots in here keep playing victim to some evil liberal conspiracy 🤡

A martyr complex is one of the key teners of Trump "believers" it…

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motorhead
4 mos ago

“Playing the victim”

You should try stand up. You’re funny as hell.

The liberal losers needed milk and cookies and crayons and safe spaces when they lost. …

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ilbbaicnl
4 mos ago

Trump ran in 2024 like Biden ran in 2020. He's created expectations that are probably impossible to satisfy. Two possibilities:

  1. His approval rating will drop…
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StripClubXpert
4 mos ago

Owlyoung_ggofv If you think that his administration will try to shut down all strip clubs with some sort of national law you getting your news from msnbc or some…

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StripClubXpert
4 mos ago

@gammanu95 • How JD Vance and Tim Walz' Favorability Compares After Debate

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StripClubXpert
4 mos ago

@motorhead • "The liberal losers needed milk and cookies and crayons and safe spaces when they lost...."

I can't believe they are giving milk & cookies to college students! These colleges…

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Icey
4 mos ago

Trump enacted sesta fosta. Conservative DAs raid clubs and blades. Yet the morons here pretend like being whore mongers falls in live with conservative "values" 🤡

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gammanu95
4 mos ago

We are we even dating favorability polls from weeks ago? Vance and his party won the only poll that matters on Tuesday, November 5, 2024. Americans…

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TheeOSU
4 mos ago

Lol, i just made the elections have consequences reference in another thread.

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ilbbaicnl
4 mos ago

As infantile behaviors go, milk and cookies in nothing compared to the Jan 6 temper tantrum.

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Puddy Tat
4 mos ago

^ Except the Summer 2020 riots over a career criminal overdosing.

No one cares about Jan 6. I don't know why the fuck Harris made that a central point…

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StripClubXpert
4 mos ago

@Icey The RNC also had Amber Rose speak at their convention. There is not going to be any federal legislation to shut down these clubs as long as…

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wld4tatas
4 mos ago

^^ Nobody cares about the 2020 riots.

It likely wouldn't make the top 100 issues that influenced voting. Whereas democracy (of which January 6 and Trump's attempted coup…

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gammanu95
4 mos ago

^ people saw the democrat lies for what they were. There was no attempted coupl. Trump is not a threat to democracy. American voters punished…

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wld4tatas
4 mos ago

Gammanu embarrasses himself again with his lack of reading comprehension.

The very article he shared (How JD Vance and Tim Walz' Favorability Compares After Debate) in fact states that…

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gammanu95
4 mos ago
  1. You're still lying. You are giving increases in favorability, not actual favorability.

  2. Trump and JD Vance won the only poll that matters.…

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wld4tatas
4 mos ago

^ Just making more a fool of yourself. Anyone can read the article you linked and see those numbers are actual favorability.

The attempted coup is all documented…

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Puddy Tat
4 mos ago

@wld4tatas

"Nobody cares about the 2020 riots."

People care about law and order, of which that was one manifestation. Trump was favored on this issue. It's also tangentially related to…

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mogul1985
4 mos ago

"A martyr complex is one of the key teners of Trump "believers" it dictates their faux messianic message"

When Hillary lost in 2016, during her concession speech, she (and…

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mogul1985
4 mos ago

I plan to stay glued to the Elector Certification by Harris on 6-Jan-2025 as she approves "Hitler". This will be priceless.

I do expect something evil to pop-up…

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mogul1985
4 mos ago

"This stain on Trump will never be forgotten, it will be part of Trump's legacy."

80M+ know it was ginned up. The Dem Star Chamber didn't provide all evidence…

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gammanu95
4 mos ago

wld4testes is repeating the same talking points over and over, practically quoting Nancy Pelosi. That's how sad and out of ideas he is (actually always has been).

The…

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wld4tatas
4 mos ago

^ You've been caught lying and deflecting multiple times here, and you still continue.

Rioters were prosecuted in MN. And those who stormed the Capital on January 6…

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skibum609
4 mos ago

^weak opinion, based on zero facts. Very progressive.

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ricktheredmeat
4 mos ago

No one died as a result of the riot at the Capitol, except for the lady murdered by Capitol police. Why was he not tried like so…

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ilbbaicnl
4 mos ago

It's not anything unusual that law enforcement prioritizes cases that draw press attention. It isn't just Trump, the Clintons and John Gotti are also examples. Hopefully…

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ricktheredmeat
4 mos ago

Icey is my bitch: https://www.factcheck.org/2021/11/how-many-died-as-a-result-of-capitol-riot/

Sadly, it proves Wikipedia cannot be trusted for facts and truth.

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Icey
4 mos ago

Your bitch troll ass said no one died 🤡

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ilbbaicnl
4 mos ago

Many Iraq vets died by suicide. Due to their traumatic experiences in a war, justified with the lies of the President. Several police officers who defended…

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skibum609
4 mos ago

^I too would have second thoughts about my future after saving the worthless lives they saved.

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Nixur68
4 mos ago

@skibum609

Blah Blah Blah I am really mad. Whatever dude. You made your bed. Trump is going to deport millions along with more tariffs starting a trade war. The…

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Icey
4 mos ago

https://youtube.com/shorts/UKHDLGC1KS8?si=Z8eR1g6xJdxhPRSM

Biden is trump with the corporate media behind him

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motorhead
4 mos ago

The fear mongers on here need to stop spreading the false narrative that Trump is going to ban porn and shut down strip clubs.

Trump has disavowed…

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gammanu95
4 mos ago

Trump won. Harris lost. Republicans won. Democrats last. America won. Liberals lost.

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Owlyoung_ggofv
4 mos ago

The moderators can close this thread. It's gotten out of hand. I normally let these die naturally but it's beginning to turn toxic.

Look guys, I am not…

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Puddy Tat
4 mos ago

^ Every political thread turns toxic here, dude.

Porn is ruled to be protected under 1A. All this shit about it and strip clubs being banned is stupid,…

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Owlyoung_ggofv
4 mos ago

@ Puddy Tat, I have mixed opinions on that, but we can agree to disagree.

Never underestimate how strong ideological fanaticism can become, left or right. Personally,…

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Puddy Tat
4 mos ago

^ Banning porn is way the fuck down any side's just of priorities. Doesn't even rate to Republican voters. You think it could ever get 60 votes in…

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Icey
4 mos ago

They wont go after porn. Theyll go after companies that make porn. Theyll attack sex. Theyre already attacking womens bodily autonomy. Attacking trans rights. It wont stop. Its…

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ricktheredmeat
4 mos ago

Arguing that Trump will ban porn amd atripping is just stupid. Get a grip on reality.
https://reason.com/2019/10/04/pornography-is-protected-by-the-first-amendment/

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Owlyoung_ggofv
4 mos ago

@ Puddy Tat, I am well aware of the First Amendment. But the fact of the matter is, Trump has control of this current Supreme Court bench.

I don't…

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Owlyoung_ggofv
4 mos ago

@ Puddy Tat, the religious right is not as powerful as say 1960, but they have power. 14 states have age restrictions on porn viewing, to point where…

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Puddy Tat
4 mos ago

^ Trump has control over the bench but unlike Roe, the decision that porn is protected under 1A isn't on shaky constitutional grounds.

Age restrictions are a different matter.…

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Owlyoung_ggofv
4 mos ago

@ Puddy Tat, I agree. To be honest, this entire country is for a rude awakening if porn is banned. Even if you despise porn, it's the fact…

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Puddy Tat
4 mos ago

^ I live in the Boston area, though when I visit my good friend in Atlanta, we spend a lot of time clubbing.

I worry about porn being…

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Puddy Tat
4 mos ago

^ Most of my clubbing is in Providence though, and I don't travel much for work. I used to and could report back from other cities or countries.…

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Nixur68
3 mos ago

They GOP is going to ban porn, onlyfans and strip clubs on federal level. The bible wackos support trump, he doesn't care and will let them do it

https://www.techdirt.com/2023/08/17/masculine-policy-the-gops-plan-to-outlaw-porn-and-suspend-the-first-amendment/

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