Strip club experience as a disabled customer?
TCabot
Hey all,
I am interested to hear your experiences (or your friend’s) experiences of how you or they were treated at clubs (both by staff and dancers) as a disabled customer. Most typically I am thinking wheelchair bound but also could be any type of disability. I have a buddy who is wheelchair bound (paraplegic) and I try to take him to a club from time to time to at least see and touch a naked woman.
How did the staff and dancers react? Any discrimination or remarks? Were they accommodating or did any dancers outright refuse to dance for you (or your friend)? And have you ever seen anyone trying to scam a disabled person in the club? Handing back the wrong amount to a blind person, taking advantage of a cognitively stunted person, etc?
Obscure topic but one that I find pretty interesting in an industry shrouded in mystery such as that of strip clubs.
I am interested to hear your experiences (or your friend’s) experiences of how you or they were treated at clubs (both by staff and dancers) as a disabled customer. Most typically I am thinking wheelchair bound but also could be any type of disability. I have a buddy who is wheelchair bound (paraplegic) and I try to take him to a club from time to time to at least see and touch a naked woman.
How did the staff and dancers react? Any discrimination or remarks? Were they accommodating or did any dancers outright refuse to dance for you (or your friend)? And have you ever seen anyone trying to scam a disabled person in the club? Handing back the wrong amount to a blind person, taking advantage of a cognitively stunted person, etc?
Obscure topic but one that I find pretty interesting in an industry shrouded in mystery such as that of strip clubs.
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Inside they were all treated good as best they could considering the obstacles in most clubs. They did get lap dances but I never saw one go to VIP.
I did see one guy that was so fat that he needed crutches to walk. He did make in to a semi private lap dance room and got several dances. Later I asked his dancer if his dick was as big as the rest of them. She replied "I don't know. I couldn't find it".
The biggest issue seems to be in some old hole in the wall type clubs where there are steps to get into the building or if there are steps to where the dances are done.
I saw a guy getting a lapdance in the main room of a club where the dances are normally done on the 2nd floor because the club had no elevator. The dance seemed much more timid from what I saw, not sure if that was because of the wheelchair or just because it was so wide open instead of in a private alcove like they had upstairs.
But they’ve been treated well. Often the prettiest dancers in the club did not at all hesitate to go over and ask for a dancer.
I did not see this myself, but my ATF told me a story about a young man who was injured in an accident and received a huge liability settlement. For 3 straight days he was at the club getting VIP dances.
I've never seen a blind customer, which makes sense. Why would a blind man go to a strip club when he can't see the dancers anyway?
He was treated well by all. Initially, he just sat at the stage tipping and hollering. I asked a dancer I was sitting with if she would mind going over and dancing for him if I gave her the money. She did that and he enjoyed the hell out of it. It also broke the ice for him to get some dances on his own. One of his son's came over to say thanks and told me the details of the man and his group. It was fun to honor a service member and see him have fun.
Well, I can think of a few reasons -- things that one might describe using abbreviations like HJ, FIV, DATY, BBBJ and CFS. You know, the usual. Just no ogling.
So the prettiest dancers wanted to get other dancers for him? Or they asked him for a dance themselves?
I've had interactions with a few nasty customers in clubs. One time a drunk guy in a wheelchair started running into me when I didn't move because I didn't see him. Had a blind guy almost start a fight because I tripped over his cane.