First time VIP
Ok y’all, I’ve enjoyed time in clubs for many years but been away from them for some time. Generally limited it to minimal cost lap dances. Had good experiences both in Philadelphia 30 years ago and RI in more recent times. Rode lap dances to completion as it were many times when I was younger but in all fairness that gets old.
Finally working towards setting aside some real money to explore the next level in the VIP. Will almost certainly be at Desire. Definitely interested in extras, particularly BBBJ with CIM, opportunity to pleasure the dancer as well, as well as FS.
Getting good insights from the various reviews—thanks y’all!—and looking for any specific tips about bankroll (thinking need to walk in with around $300 to spend?) and how to survey and approach dancers to make this happen. Thanks!!
Finally working towards setting aside some real money to explore the next level in the VIP. Will almost certainly be at Desire. Definitely interested in extras, particularly BBBJ with CIM, opportunity to pleasure the dancer as well, as well as FS.
Getting good insights from the various reviews—thanks y’all!—and looking for any specific tips about bankroll (thinking need to walk in with around $300 to spend?) and how to survey and approach dancers to make this happen. Thanks!!
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Users on this site are very aware that Desires was one of the clubs targeted by a story from a TV station a few years ago, and it almost caused all of the clubs in Rhode Island to shut down.
If you don't get a lot of responses yet, that may be why. We give a lot of information to people with a record of contributing.
Certainly don’t want to get anyone in any kind of trouble and totally respect the caution you describe. . .
How I survey the dancers for what I want is to just ask for what I want. No hints, innuendo, or "code" in the form of male vocalist names. Just use your words and ask (politely). You won't shock anyone.
If you write a review, don't connect dancers by name to extras or prices. That stuff is generally discussed via PM.
And, yes, locals have seen explicit Desire reviews (and other clubs) scroll across the evening news, which led to busts and crackdowns. So, we try not to piss in our own Cheerios.
Long ago there were a few times when I found I didn't have enough cash on me to take advantage of unexpectedly good opportunities that arose, and I was not about to use a credit card or an ATM in a strip club. My M.O. now is to bring a good amount more money with me than I would initially expect to spend -- just in case.
That doesn't mean I have to spend it, but I can if I decide to. For me, it helps that I do not drink alcohol (I gave that up decades ago), so I usually make spending decisions using the big head, not the little head. Usually. 😁
Stripper Rule #5: Bring in the amount of money you intend to spend and don't do the ATM machine.
Stripper Rule #8: Don’t get drunk at a strip club. It makes you an easy target.
Once at Mario's in Johnston I violated those rules, simultaneously.
It cost me enough to remember to never do it again!
I don't know that club specifically, so I cant comment on if $300 is enough or not, around here you can get it done for that but only if you're focused. If you spend a bit on drinks and maybe a few trial run dances, you'll likely fall short of being able to also do a room. If this is your first time trying to get extras, I'd expect maybe buy the girl and drink and do a few dances first. Only the most mechanical of places would I expect to walk in, say hello, how much, then go do it.
Generically, I'd say bring no more than you can afford to spend, but likely more than you plan to. If you're the type with self control issues, half measures like limiting how much you bring are likely to just get you into trouble in the long run. Just stay the fuck home if you don't have the discipline.
I *never* go into a strip club without a condom (or two) -- even a club not known for extras. I don't always need one, but sometimes, even when you least expect it, a dancer may ask "Do you have a condom?" If that happens, there's really only one good answer to that question -- and it's not "Ooh, sorry, wish I did!"
This leads to a few things, some of the dancers who don't do that will take themselves out of the pool and the ones that will will approach you, but this dynamic happens over time as the dancers get to know you.
Is $300 enough? Maybe maybe not. It really depends.
And I second being as prepared as possible.