Dancer here can be a handful

You should call them out by name.

I've seen Nicolette yell at a guy after she did a VIP with him, and he started talking to another girl when she went into the locker room. Lots of other guys have a similar story.

You should just laugh it off. They aren't wives or girlfriends. You pay them for their time, and that's it. You want to pay for someone else's time, do it unapologetically.

^ Funny. I immediately thought of Nicolette when I read the original post.

Maybe someone is a little too sensitive!

@Nelly I'd definitely call them out but I don't want to out myself!

From my perspective, I think it's possibly you.

One of the reasons why I really enjoy Desire is the lack of drama and "bad vibes". I know some guys prefer to be approached, but I appreciate the fact that many dancers here don't pounce on customers. I can relax without being hounded and take a little time to see who's dancing on that shift. On the occasions when the dancers do approach, they don't get bothered if I politely say 'no'.

It's usually easy to talk to the dancers about the VIP experience and prices. I have my regulars there, but I've never had them get snotty with me about occasionally spending money on other dancers. The only dancer I know of that has cussed out guys for spending money on other dancers in Nicolette (though I'll admit that I've never experiences this directly, but I've heard about it from others there). I've never caught a look while entering or leaving VIP.

I think I've had two negative encounters with dancers there over several years, and even those weren't horrible. Mackenzie scolded me pretty harshly for not wanting dances from her. I had one dancer try to rip me off in VIP and I walked out. She yelled at me; I didn't care.

I don't know, man. Maybe change your cologne.

Ok I’ve said it before & I’ll say it again, Nicolette is the CD toxic drama queen... and she now is a ROB threat. She’s viscous and all about the $ (escorting & dancing at CD is her only job). Back in the day she was fairly hot (tho her butta face is scary especially when she gets mad, which is fairly often…lol) and fun but not anymore. In the past year she has gotten much worse & gone way downhill; meaner, more greedy, high volume, super fat (was preggo but ended it & did not lose the weight-confirmed by 2 CD dancers).

She’s a bitchy drama queen, very bad news & has had many run ins with LE and guys at CD and OTC customers (lots of bad comments on this forum & many online bad reviews). She’s been arrested 3 times for prostitution & stealing, and I know of 2 guys that she extorted big $$$$$ from by threatening to expose them to their wives.

She bitched me out at CD bar in front of many for talking to other dancers and she actually said “I’m the hottest girl at CD, much hotter than the loser girls you follow on IG”?! I actually had to block her # due to her many harassing/threatening texts. I have no idea why management/ownership allows her to stay (some have suggested she has a special arrangement!). YMMV but IMHO stay far away from this loser…

I had a bit of minor drama with a no-extras dancer (didn't know at the time) I forgot to tip, then later that evening her "friend" told her I tipped her for FS in VIP. Just seemed like a unique situation that had nothing to do with Desire per se.
I am curious about what is an acceptable expression for a dancer you're not otherwise interacting with to have on her face when you happen to make eye contact while entering/existing VIP.

I'd say neutral, in my situation I could tell the stare was like a dagger. But yeah I don't know. I suspect since all the girls talk I must have done something to rub a few the wrong way. This specific situation happened when a dancer yelled at me cause she saw me go to VIP with another girl.

I wrote in another post that some of these girls are single (or not) and looking for boyfriends. A few have admitted that to me, but it is based on faulty assumptions in my opinion. Most strip club customers, myself included, have no interest in this. A guy would have to be insane to date a dancer and even crazier to date a Desire dancer, cause well...I can't even imagine the denial their significant others must put themselves through or they are extremely naive.

Call.me.Ishmael,

Mackenzie was one fo the worst dances I ever had.

We got in the VIP, and I was fine with the standard VIP, and she kept pushing a $150 upsell over and over no matter how many times I said no.

wow i’m another dancer reading this and i am appalled. none of us dancers own any customers like customers do not own dancers or have the right to get jealous of girls hanging with other clientele. that’s the point of this business. you can get a dance from WHOEVER! even if the girl is my biggest hater…

@LTeo

Whenever things don't make sense, there is a reason although it might not be obvious at first. Regarding the special arrangement, I have no knowledge if that's true, but I wouldn't be suprised since what I can say for sure is CD is an incestuous club. Many of the dancers live with each other or have lived with each other in the past. Some date or have dated each other (certain dancers are bi), I know of a few dancers who are related, certain employees knew management/owners before working there.

Of course, some won't tell you any of this, but RI is a small state and the club/bar/restaurant industry even smaller. So it might make sense.

The O.P. is Caca guy. This is what happened on SCL. Now that the Hungry profile has been doubted, here is the asshole with a new profile. Always discussing personal lives at the start is the give-away. The ultra feminine love of drama is the clincher.

Tell the bitch to fuck off.

Skibum you sure seem like a paranoid loser with no life. You seem to accuse everyone of being a troll and seem to live on this site.

Note how I didn't call or out anyone by name which I won't. All I posted were facts which are given by the dancers or employees themselves. But cool, I'll be happy to NOT share any detailed info with you. Keep overspending and getting less. Enjoy!

^An anal fissure is preferable to any advice from you. Your first post was Caca post to a T.

All I know is that I've been going to Desire for years. I've interacted with numerous dancers there in and out of the club. I haven't experienced any of the drama described in this thread.

That's why I keep going back.

So, either some of you guys don't know how to strip club, you need thicker skin, or it's mostly horseshit. I guess it could be a mix of all three.

Nicolette... I know that she's picky and possessive about customers. So, I solve that by not asking her for dances. I don't care about her personal life and I don't see the sense in gossiping about her personal life.

They did you a favor, outlaw, as they identified themselves as problem girls without you first needing to spend money to learn that.

In any club, there will be girls that are jealous, girls that get angry, girls that approach you, and girls that don't want to be bothered with you.

Don't get offended....just wait for the girls that are drawn to you; you'll ultimately have a better time. If nobody approaches you, keep the funds for a future visit.

Thanks Sasha for your refreshing response. You nailed it, no jealously or drama or possessiveness, just chill and have fun & do dances with whomever you want, We need more dancer feedback here, As Ski & OWG have often said - naked girls, alcohol & sports on the TV, all good at the strip club!

And just for the record I also do not give a shit about Nicolette, nor am I gossiping about her personal life…I merely provided those details to put things in context…more of a public service ROB Alert announcement to let others know she is a very mean & dangerous person that is desperate for $ and rips people off…part of her MO is to hook you into being exclusive to her (WTF? Who in their right mind would do that?!), telling you she’ll be your secret girlfriend, that she is very picky and denies dates often, and its all about YOU…such BS…then when you try to move on she harasses & threatens to expose you to wife and family unless you pay her $$$$$...Such a horrible person and a f’d up life…

Fun on the side I agree 100%

Without leaning either way it is appears the dancer in question has Serious mental issues, surely exacerbated by the work and/or substance abuse. People with bipolar disorder/borderline disorder etc. And self medicate can be extremely dangerous to themselves and others. Be careful who you deal with.

I had this happen with one current dancer when she was younger and with one who is at another club now who did it to me several times. I didn’t do anything wrong other than not telling them to fuck off.

Why does the club allow chicks like Nicolette and Rosie to pull crazy shit like this while firing Angelina multiple times or firing Melody the blonde cocksucker or not hiring Magenta the curvy big-titted brunette back? This club needs to cut down on the number of heavily- tatted truck-stop gutter sluts and hire more college coeds and girls next door. I can’t even get my two best guy friends to come here anymore because of Rosie and all the skanks here.

^ I'm not remotely taking you seriously anymore.

^Who gives a shit? You name yourself after a fag who chases whales.

TO ALL:
I have been doing this for a long time.
I have not found a better club in New England.
I have been coming here once or twice a week since it opened.
I was here when the day crew was 6 or 8 girls.
I used to sit at the bar with those girls and rotate through for LDs.
I had a five girl afternoon rotation (Natalie, Renesme, Sierra, Talia, Jasmine) that would tell me whose turn it was.
I now have a weekly "date" with my ATF going on 8 years but spend time with other girls if I happen by and she's not working.
I have had one (1) VIP when what was promised was not delivered!
I have had NO jealousy rants and that includes Nicolette because I explained the situation when I asked her for the dance.
We're seeing a barrage of negativity from two posters.
I'm guessing the negativity is more about them than the Desire Dancers!

I have never had a negative experience at this club, but I also don't discount reports from those who have. With out being there I don't have evidence either way.

Frankly, some of you guys seem way too emotionally involved in this place. It ranges from what seems like outright shilling and arrogance (I'm so great and experienced all the dancers love me!) to (The dancers here suck and rip me off!) None of these are true except in your own minds.

You're just customers nobody cares including the dancers. Lots of the info here is close to useless anyway cause I've personally experienced the opposite. I trust myself over any reports on here.

Skibum you asshole I am not the caca guy and I doubt the outlaw is either. You have to go through too much work to get on here to just use it for trolling. Sasha you don’t show your face on your Only Fans page?

On a funny note- what’s with Reign and all the frigging filters she uses in pictures? You’re beautiful Reign - you don’t need them. It makes you look like cgi animation or something on Instagram. And kudos to you being able to dance now too.

The Sicilian is obviosly taking a shot at me in his comment so let me tell you that I have no illusions.
When a grown man talks about "dirty stares" and "stares like a dagger", it is a bit ludicrous!
I mentioned the circumstances I have personally encountered to illustrate that I have never had to deal with petty jealousies nor the "stares like a dagger" that a couple guys are fixated on.

I do have a long and illustrious career as a stip club enthusiast,
It started at 17 and I'll be 70 soon.
I think that experience gives me some insight into how the game is layed.

Stripper Rule #1: Every girl has her own limits and those limits may be different for different customers. Some will do all, some will do some, some will do none but no one is doing just you!

Stripper Rule #2: They don't necessarily keep a regular schedule.

Stripper Rule #3: The real world stops and the fantasy world begins when you walk through the door. You are paying for the fantasy, so don't confuse the two.

Stripper Rule #4: When a stripper tells you that she can't wait to see you again or that she has missed you so much...the YOU she is talking about is your wallet. (I'm not saying that the girls don't have favorite customers that they would prefer to see, but we are all customers)

Stripper Rule #5: Bring in the amount of money you intend to spend and don't do the ATM machine.

Stripper Rule #6: They don't come to your office and waste your time, so don't go to their "office" and waste theirs.

Stripper Rule #7: It is time to leave when you run out of money or they turn on the lights.

Stripper Rule #8: Don’t get drunk at a strip club. It makes you an easy target.

Stripper Rule #9: It is her job to take your money. She will tell you what she thinks will induce you to spend more. A sad story, bad luck, impending doom, promises of future sexual adventure are all designed to get you to spend beyond your limit. Just as each girl has her right to define her limits, you need to define your limits.

Stripper Rule #10: It’s okay to fall in lust but don’t fall in love.

Stripclubs have naked women, alcohol and sports on TV.
If you're not having fun, it's your own damn fault!

White guy, just because you (or I for that matter) have not had this type of negative or jealous experience doesn't mean it has not happened to others. Strip club environment and dancer attitude matters so you can't argue that it ALWAYs is the customers fault.
Also, no offense but because of generational / age gaps the way dancers treat much older men versus a guy her age or slightly older is going to be different. It could very well be that they end up getting feelings and then begin acting erratically or in a crazy manner.
If guys here think she'd rather not engage in higher risk behavior and hang out with a well off attractive guy around her age versus a 65 year old, you're just living in delusion.

I suspect that the number of people posting to this thread is considerably lower than the number of profiles in this thread...

Caca guy also had a thing for Reign as does ......

@ Sicilian: the girls below 30 may want the young stud but the girls over 30 know that the young stud is more trouble because of he is a young stud and he's got the I'm pulling you attitude. The girls that have been doing this for a while, particularly the afternoon girls, want to develop a regular clientel because they realize that a lovestruck 65 year old with lots of disposable income is less work with a higher return.
As told to me by one of my favorites, "You are dangerous. You come in here, flirt with everyone and never pressure any girl on her boundaries. You're generous and patient. Because, you know that sooner or later we'll make a bad decision and you'll get everything you want." It's worked for 50 years!!!!

Can't argue with what she said and your strategy to be honest with you. I have heard the same thing from some dancers that the younger guys will ask stuff like what are you doing later? To each his own, I'm personally too much of a realist to have any illusions to what this is...fun and fantasy, nothing more.

OldWhiteGuy is spot on. The amusing part of the younger guys is that they go into clubs thinking they can pull a stripper, when the reality is that they need to go into an environment such as a strip club where they {incorrectly} assume it's like shooting fish in a barrel.

Many of us have never asked a stripper for her number, yet not asking has yielded more numbers than the supposed young studs.

Interesting. I do sometimes ask for numbers but it is only to be practical to schedule a meet at the club. You are probably correct in that some are hesitant because of past bad experiences or they think I want to pull them. The truth is I like to be efficient with my time instead of having to guess when a girl is working. I'm also totally fine with a no, can't meet up, or not a good time, I won't belabor it and would just try again at a later date. But maybe I just won't ask at all anymore and just be patient until they offer.

We should be talking about dancers and who’s worth spending money on. Instead we bicker over nonsense. That’s what lead to the demise of the SCL.

You are better off hitying the club and figuring it out for yourself by trial and error. The reviews are good for who the dancers are but everything else varies, and I'm sure certain guys post misinformation or hide information. I mainly joined to scan reviews for rob threats.

^This asshole is the OP with another name. ^^This asshole is also the OP. This is how Caca guy destroyed the scl board. Do not treat any of them as you would a human being.

Skibum what is up with your rambling nonsense in this thread? You're a guy who's lack of intelligence decided to use the same screename across the internet where a simple internet search finds posts from you going back 15 or more years and you post personal details about yourself and life where a dedicated person can find out who you really are and doxx you. So please enlighten us about how smart you are. Idiot.

Amen.

Sicilian you being an internet pussy impresses no one except your other alter egos. Find my posts all you like, in fact genius be dedicated and find me in person. That way you can find out for yourself why I don't care if people know who I am or can find me. Doxx me? Lol. I live in the real world and can only be doxed in the real world, which no doxxer would do, since wetting yourself in public might embarrass you. Come find me cum stain, because I can find you.......