Thanks to MIDancer I was recalling different dancers that really stood out for one reason or another. I saw this cute dancer and she was new. I could tell because although she was very soft, her hands were very rough and calloused. It was funny she said to me that she really appreciated rough hands on a man. I laughed and said why in the world would you want a man with rough hands. She takes my hands and turns them over and is looking at them and just lightly caressing them. She looks deep straight in my eyes and says these are the hands of a man who knows honest hard work. :) Boy, that made me feel so good at the time coming from her. :)
So she made a connection and I spent a lot more than I normally did, and felt good about it.
It turned out that although she was soft, she was capable of doing a man's work. This just shocked me. A little woman so soft with calloused hands that knew construction work. Not a skilled laborer. Just someone that will put in a hard days work for a fair days pay. When I asked her about her new job of dancing she laughed at me and said if you could get paid the same or more than you are now to entertain women wouldn't you jump at the chance! Damn, straight was my answer. Nice AC, plenty to drink, get to feel up the opposite sex. Heaven. :) The thing she didn't like about it was that it didn't seem very honest. A man should just go out and find himself a woman instead taking the easy way out. She says this is really something I get paid a lot more and work a whole lot less. Doesn't seem right, but nobody is being forced to spend their hard earned money here. A very nice person. :)
More than few times she tried to convince me to stop taking the easy way out as she put it. Even wanted to give me dating advice, which would probably have been helpful indeed! :) I asked once wouldn't you miss me as customer? She says not even a little bit. Laughing. She says I'd rather see you with some woman that you really care about and who cares about you.
I remember my first lap-dance. I remember my first service provider. I remember a couple of the more recent experiences at clubs that are still close in memory. and I remember a few other key moments in between. But I have certainly forgotten, at least in specific, the vast majority.