This will be interesting to see if there’s a trend.
Survey: of all your sex partners, which if these questions describe that person best. Stipulation: you have had to have sex with this person at least 3 times on 3 separate occasions. A one time encounter is not an accurate measurement of someone’s sexual performance. On the other hand you could pick your wife.
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Scale of 1-10 where do they rate looks wise?
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Do you usually pay for the encounter? (Stripper/escort/sugar baby vs civilian)
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What was the age of your partner when this occurred?
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What was your age when this occurred?
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last commentMy answers (as an example):
6
No
Late 30s
We were so late 30s
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How do you do a survey on a huge number of people over 49 year period?
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^^^ when I ask “the best ever” one doesn’t come to mind? We’re talking performance based, doesn’t have to do with looks. Of all people I figured you’d pick your wife.
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6 (cute, but not wow)
No (civilian)
33
30
It wasn't so much technique but chemistry and open-mindedness.
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I'm gonna have to say my wife when we first met.
4 20's.
But that was 30 years ago. Things have changed since.
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If we are talking performance based then yes its my wife:
6 now at 62 compared to other women on earth; 7/8 when we met;
free;
30;
How many women are a 4 on the bj chart and then become a 10+++ 30 years later?
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1.9
Money (lol @free)
19
30
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1 7
2 No
3 18
4 21
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On a scale of 1-10, she was a 7
Steady gf, so "no" in the p4p
She was early 30s
I was late 20s
Hands down, the best sex I ever had. She was tall - 5'10", big natural Ds, and porcelain skin. Her pussy was great, but her oral was mind-blowing.
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7, sugar baby, mid 30, late 40.
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That would be my wife.
First encounter was the best ever (yet), a classic multi hour fest. Best ever has happened numerous times since.
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@shailynn
I will play along and answer your questions:
I would have to rate her a 10, blonde, green eyes, 5' 7" super model looks from Easter Europe, with beautiful natural firm C's breasts, it was in Beverly Hills...
We all pay one way or another.
Early Twenties
Early Fifties
This is the link to the article I wrote about what is still, to this day, my best sexual experience...
“How I found my All Time Favorite woman”
tuscl.net
Thank you for making me remember the good/best old time...
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Well I'd say the results are in. Aside from wives, most guys ultimate lay is:
Closer to the same age as the PL
Average or slightly above average in looks
Free, at least most PLs encounters didn't consist of Pay 4 Play.
None of this surprises me. For me, most of the women that were so hot I was in shock I was having sex with them (civilian and P4P) were average at best in bed. There were a few exceptions but not many. On the other hand the majority of the average girls/women over my lifetime were usually better lays.
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If she hadn't taken a job in England after she graduated I believe we would still be together. We have been friends since elementary school but it didn't turn romantic until we were in grad school. I still regret the decision to not move to England with her when she asked.
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Leave it to CJ to be a total tool. "we all pay"? Bullshit. No wonder you're alone and lonely. Also as misogynistic as any other low-life. A marriage is far more than sex, but great sex is a benefit. I could also look at my wife as someone who cooks most of the time; someone who provides a top tier nurses union medical plan, unavailable to me as a self-employed person otherwise; her 401k; her friendship is free; I can also suggest that when our pool filter broke last week and the first appointment would could get was july 17, that having a wife capable of scooping out 275 pounds of sand with a soup ladle, taking it apart, fixing it and putting it back together with new filter sand for $106.00 instead of the $600.00 the pool company wanted in a month was a financial benefit as well. Sock puppets like you don't get it.
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^
“Truth is universal... Perception of truth varies...”
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Yeah, the legit 9s I had sex with were ok but not great in bed. The type who wanted credit for showing up.
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