UPSCALE CLUBS IN THE US

I'm a traveling dancer on the hunt for the most upscale clubs in the US.

of all the places I have worked, so far Desire in Providence, RI
has had the most upscale clientele (Doctors, Attorneys, Financial Advisors ect)
Great $$, easily known for extras but you CAN maneuver this if you know how to prospect/know what/who you're looking for.
I am looking for a place that not only has high-end clients but classy, non-catty behind the scenes (dressing room/other dancers) In my opinion there is enough to go around and no need for the cut-throat attitudes.
does this even exist? lol