Ok. I’m being completely serious. Only 25 percent of the women that I “try to fuck” can actually fuck me. 1 out of 12 Asian gals could take all of me and have fun. The others were Literally like, “umm, BJ and 69, but please no sex... too big”. 2 out of 4 black gals could actually fuck me full after 15 minutes of trying to insert with lube. The other 2 gave it a good college try, but only the tip completed. Apparently, I have gotten bigger over the last 30 years because I don’t recall it being that much of a problem before. My wife is shy about it as well. She says she can’t walk correct for 3 days afterwards and that puts a damper on it. So, shy of shaving girth off my unit, how does one approach this issue ? Most guys think they want a large cock, but a large cock is more of a curse than not. And GO....
Mine is normal length I guess but has a lot of girth... It really comes down to a lot of foreplay. Positions from behind work better if she's really tight at first....longer slower strokes work better. But the main thing is making her as comfortable as possible and wet as possible. Lube helps. But its just about her getting comfortable taking it.
On the other hand, there are girls who love that feeling where they don't know if its pleasure or pain and crave it.
I need to find those gals who actually like it, I’m guessing. Not like I’m gonna walk up and say, “hey, you like a big thick cock?” Therein lies the challenge!
Say you're fucking one girl. The sex is awesome, but neither one of you wants to get serious.
How honest can and should you be about other pussy you're hitting? I've found a lot of chicks ok with open relationships or fwb still don't wanna know when you're banging other chicks.
If you're both on the same page, and are mature about it, I'd say a don't ask don't tell policy is your safest bet.
I'd only make it known if I wanted to make her jealous and keep her around. Nothing makes a woman want you more than knowing other women want you. The big pitfall of both of you being open to others though is if you really wanna know if she's fucking someone else.
I honestly don't care if she fucks others. I enjoy smashing that but I'm not gonna fall in love and I have plenty going on in my life.
She's bi and down for group shit, but seems more keen on bringing in girls she finds than letting me get her together with any of my other girls. And maybe that's how threesomes work best, when the girls set them up.
3somes work best when the third person isn't well known by either party. But with her bringing them in, it gives her more control and that can translate to more comfort and better sex. But depends on how much more control she tries to exert over the arrangement. I think the guy should be more in control. It creates better boundaries.
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On the other hand, there are girls who love that feeling where they don't know if its pleasure or pain and crave it.
Say you're fucking one girl. The sex is awesome, but neither one of you wants to get serious.
How honest can and should you be about other pussy you're hitting? I've found a lot of chicks ok with open relationships or fwb still don't wanna know when you're banging other chicks.
I'd only make it known if I wanted to make her jealous and keep her around. Nothing makes a woman want you more than knowing other women want you. The big pitfall of both of you being open to others though is if you really wanna know if she's fucking someone else.
She's bi and down for group shit, but seems more keen on bringing in girls she finds than letting me get her together with any of my other girls. And maybe that's how threesomes work best, when the girls set them up.