SA vs Stripper

joc13
firmly on the Atlanta United bandwagon!
To expand on Doces post re: SA, and provide counterpoint to Subraman's claim that the SA girl will be flakier than the stripper.

So, I've been in communication with a stripper and a girl from SA this past week.

(I go back and forth on calling the girl from SA "my SB" cause to me a true SB involves a guaranteed pay out and we are strictly p4p. But, we have a lot of contact between visits, which is more SBish than escort-ish.)

Last weekend I take a look at my schedule for the upcoming week and realize "holy crap, this is going to be a rough week. The college conf champion games give me an excuse to be out all day Saturday, so I better get something good lined up. I think I'll try to do a 3way again with the SA girl and the stripper"

Send text to that effect to both of them.

SA girl: within a couple hours "I'm free Saturday, whatever you want. Yes, get the stripper to come, I like her" and a sexy pic comes with it

Stripper: day 1 - crickets, day 2 - crickets

day 3 - "club is dead, you should come see me", but no answer to question. Re-ask question, chat about other stuff, no answer to question.

day 4 - "at work again, it's REALLY slow". Re-ask question. "I already said yes". I re-read all her texts, no she didn't, but I'm happy she finally did. "could you send me some of the money now so I can get out of here? Send me X now and you only have to give me Y on Saturday" We did this last time and she followed through so I'm ok risking it again, especially since X + Y actually add up to a number LESS than our agreed on rate (if there are no snags, I'll probably give her the full amount anyway). I send the money and remind her that my interest charge on advances is a picture a day until settled up. "Ok, I'll send one once I leave here"

Crickets.

Send SA girl text that the stripper is in. She sends back two sexy stories of what she's planning to do with me and then stripper and two more sexy pics.

The stripper is way hotter than the SA girl, but luckily she doesn't have the ego to turn GPS. I know she'll follow through, cause she'd rather party with us than go to work. But, damn, I'm glad I'm not trying to rely on the stripper as my regular source of female companionship. Would be frustrating as hell.

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twentyfive
7 years ago
Just think of sugar babies as strippers, er hookers on a retainer
shailynn
7 years ago
^^^ according to this story, a RELIABLE hooker.

Good work Joc
Uprightcitizen
7 years ago
The SA girls I hook up with are mostly college girls and have been very reliable. I attribute their reliability as girls with some measure of responsibility and discipline. They are far far more reliable than strippers and keep their schedules for the most part.

Previous hot body 22 year old SA girl was very reliable for 6 months but flaked out with some personal issues. Present 19 year old SA girl I am regular with (3+ months) is a weekly one (or more) for $1K per month. Very pretty, former model, good body, kinda snarky but fun personality and a total GFE.

SA>Stripper for schedule reliability in my experience
Doces300
7 years ago
So far SA might be the better deal for me. In the space of a couple of days I have set up 5 girls. "If" their pics and profiles are accurate then they are 3 hot college girls, I pro, I think, and one hot 26 yr old divorcee. I will be spending my CF' s 1k on these girls. Will report on my findings.
crazyjoe
7 years ago
Sounds like lots of crickets
Doces300
7 years ago
Lol that should say 1 pro
Subraman
7 years ago
My guess is that experiences vary more wildly on SA than they do with strip clubs. With strip clubs, all of us are dealing with strippers, and while each stripper is an individual, there are very common experiences. On SA, that's there's enormous variety of women, with an enormous variety of goals. You get strippers, who basically behave on SA the way they behave anywhere else -- flakey, unreliable, impulsive, etc. You get responsible college girls. You get everything in between.

In my personal experience, AS A WHOLE, both the flakiness rate, and the number of "can you front me $400 before we meet" style requests from SA girls, *** exceeds *** that of strippers. In fact, I haven't gotten such a request from a stripper in a couple of years, and have gotten two from SA girls in the past few months (one just last night!). On the flakiness front, I suspect that there's two things going on:

1. Many of the "regular" girls are not totally sure they really want to do this, and get cold feet somewhere along the process

2. Many of the more seasoned girls lose patience for the "back-and-forth emailing, then scheduling to meet a week out, then the guy flakes" type experiences -- they are on a hair trigger to drop you based on any indication you might be a "time waster", where that term means anything from "too many emails" to "taking too long to schedule" to any other number of wacky things that I can't divine
Doces300
7 years ago
Yep, she is a pro, just started texting me nude shots lol
Hern49
7 years ago
having an SA sounds really fun. Only problem is I have no clue what that means.
Lurker_X
7 years ago
Strippers do not seem to have the same impression of texts like PLs do. We view them like written voice mail, something to which a reply is expected. Strippers treat them more like watching a stream of Instagram status feeds.
joc13
7 years ago
SA is short for SeekingArrangement.com a web site and app for sugar daddies and sugar babies to find each other.
Subraman
7 years ago
^^^ the one thing I'd is -- and this is pretty key -- it's not just SDs and SBs, a huge percentage (the majority, in fact) of women are fine with per-meeting payments, in which case, SA is a higher-value lower-risk version of using escorts. In fact, based on Doces300's posts, that sounds exactly like how he's using it, to do one-time meetings with a woman who is otherwise an escort.
joc13
7 years ago
I was going to add that, too, but my girl from SA (somewhere between a traditional SB and an escort) is supposed to arrive any minute now . . .
Jascoi
7 years ago
have fun!
joc13
7 years ago
Conclusion:

Night before, send text to both girls with time I expect to be at hotel and checked in.
SA: Yes sir, I'm all set. See you there. (Yes, she actually said "sir")
Stripper: crickets

Late morning, day of, send text that it looks like I'll be one hour later, but definitely then
SA: OK, no problem. Do you need me to pick up anything on the way?
Stripper: crickets

Get to hotel, get checked in, turn on the football game, SA girl arrives a little late, but still no word from stripper.

Half hour later, finally get a text from stripper that she just paid to get her phone back on. Says she can still come. Ok, we'll see you when you get here.

Bottom line: this time the stripper was only 2.5 hours late instead of the 4 hours late of last time. I got Round 1 with the SA girl waiting on the stripper, and then Round 2 with our 3 way later.

We have a different stripper in the pipeline for OTC fun, so here's hoping she's more reliable.

Might be a moot point though, cause SA girl has asked about us going as a couple to a swingers club. That should be a whole different adventure.
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