Lets do a local/regional club guide/search. NJ-NY Metro first

Ok hear me out. As others have said also, its getting routine almost boring at times, the usual clubbing. So before I take a sabbatical I'll open up suggestions and opinions for alternative clubs or whatever. Not really into escorts or AMPs..

Usual NJ haunts have become boring, Irvington, Elizabeth so on. Started Paterson but haven't really gotten around yet.
Just reading city reviews can become overwhelming. Need a good guide that can point a PL to the right match, we're not a monolithic bunch.

We can go around the country by metro in a separate thread.