Ways to start a text convo??
SebastianCobb
California
You don't want it to be the same opener but you don't want it to be dry either...And you want to avoid pet/cute names because she might have a BF and you don't want to start drama...
What do you guys suggest?
What do you guys suggest?
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I've dated women who will just text "Hey" or "what r u doin" and nothing else. you don't have to be real creative here.
The best way to start most conversations is if you notice something you have discussed with them before and start with it. "did you see ... (insert info).
If it's a convo with a stripper it all depends on the nature of your relationship. If it's just about meeting at the club, or checking her schedule there's really nothing spectacular to do imo.
"hey"
"sup"
"What time will you be working?"
"Can we hang out today?"
"What's your favorite LUSH bath bomb?" (new)
"This sexy dress (link) would look stunning on you"
Response rate is outstanding
It attempts to auto respond to all the trite texts like "hi. How are you?", "What's up", "can you come see me tonight?", etc
I checked messages once, and one girl talked to the auto responder multiple times over three days before she finally said something that required me to intervene.
Lone wolf has good ideas. I kinda hate texting customers, so they have to be interesting. There's one guy who texts me "hi" constantly. He rarely buys dances tho, and if I say hi back, he doesn't have much to say, so I just don't answer him except maybe 1 one of 10 times.
I'm all business like that unless I get something non-business. Which I use as opportunity to flirt. I take it easy though, just a few messages before back to business, she's not there to text me 24/7.
Example,
She'll say "what you doing?"
I'll be "oh, you know, the usual, daydreaming about you"
Whether she's all business or not is easy to figure out after that.
Unfortunately, for me, the response is often a "laughing so hard I"m crying" emoji, and also in 3 cases, restraining orders. I continue undeterred, however, from my life's mission of ensuring every stripper I come in contact with knows what my dick looks like.
There are some exceptions, but they are rare.
Usually hot looking women want that visual and face to face contact, because that is where they play out their strengths.
So really all you can do is us text to get them on the phone and then without any delays ask them out.
If you want more intellectual talk with them, like maybe best is in between rounds with her.
SJG
What you send should be natural and not forced or pre planned.
Like I said before, if you notice something she likes or is into (ex. a tv show or a celebrity) and you want to start a conversation ask her "how was "show" last night or "did you see "celebrity" has a new show coming out? Apply it as it works for your situation and her likes. If you don't know what she likes then you need to be asking more questions to her about herself.
My two cents.
Text 1: *dick pic*
Text 2: Funny meme about a dog who "forgot how to dog"
Text 3: Can you believe (name) died on GoT tonight?? Khaleesi is soooo hot!
Text 4: *dick pic*
Also, I should have mentioned, the second dick pic in the sequence above should feature full erection