how to decide

32 comments

• Meursault

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  8 years ago

  Why not go to both and decide for yourself? The fun you have at a club usually boils down to the girls (or usually THE girl). That is really subjective, so reviews can only help you so much.
• sclvr5005

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  8 years ago

  C'mon this is a no brainer. Try both.
• shailynn

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  8 years ago

  If access may be an issue, I would recommend calling the club and asking what their entrance policy is. That issue may make your decision for you.
• Imamutt

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  8 years ago

  One club I have gone to is female customer friendly but each one must be accompanied by a man. Arriving in the same car and entering together is the only way a female nonemployee gets in unless applying or interviewing for a job.
• sclvr5005

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  8 years ago

  ^^one lawsuit and that policy goes buh-bye.
• shailynn

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  8 years ago

  ^^^ well the old "excuse" was that women weren't allowed in alone in fear they were escorts coming in to find prospective clients and lure them out.
  
  I agree the policy now is pretty stupid, if I can take a shit in a women's restroom at a Target why can't caralynn and her girlfriend go look at some titties?
• georgmicrodong

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  8 years ago

  @CaraLynn87: If your budget allows for it, if agree with trying them both, then choosing.
  
  If you've enough for one, read all the reviews for each of them and see if you can spot any trends. The look for reviews by those who've reviewed clubs that you have been to, and see how your experiences stack up. Also check reviews from out of towners, especially those from places you know have the types of clubs you like.
• CaraLynn87

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  8 years ago

  budget can prevent going to both. we don't go in planning to spend $20.
• CaraLynn87

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  8 years ago

  we only go together.
  
• CaraLynn87

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  8 years ago

  georgmicrodong, excellent idea. one problem, we don't have the experience to know the types of clubs. the reason i asked the question in the first place. thanks to all for responses. i'll post an update afterward.
• georgmicrodong

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  8 years ago

  In that case, it won't hurt to ask about the clubs specifically on the message board, or even PM some of the experienced reviewers of the clubs in which you're interested.
• CaraLynn87

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  8 years ago

  georgmicrodong, maybe you should escort us :)
  
• georgmicrodong

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  8 years ago

  Gladly. Sadly, Florida, if your reviews indicate your location, is a little outside my commute zone. :)
  
  On the other hand, if you're up for a road trip, I'll be happy to be your guide. :)
• jestrite50

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  8 years ago

  Go to both of them and then write the reviews and let us know which was best.
• Papi_Chulo

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  8 years ago

  Not many reviews by women when it comes most SCs; so hard to make a judgment from reading the reviews since IME that is hardly every addressed. Best you can do is call the club ahead of time or post the clubs in question and what you are looking for in a club
• lopaw

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  8 years ago

  I'd flip a coin and go to Club #1 and if you both are having a good time stay there. If not head to Club B. You'd only be out the cover, a drink and maybe parking. If Club B sucks too then go home and fuck each others brains out :D
• rl27

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  8 years ago

  I can't believe no one said this yet.
  
  Post the names of the clubs, someone here may have a bit of knowledge on the two clubs you are interested in.
• CaraLynn87

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  8 years ago

  Papi chilo, good point. Most all reviews are from guysn certainly a difference.
• CaraLynn87

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  8 years ago

  Lopaw, pretty good advice. perhaps that's the answer. shall see tomorrow.
• CaraLynn87

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  8 years ago

  Papi chilo, good point. Most all reviews are from guysn certainly a difference.
• CaraLynn87

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  8 years ago

  On a phone this interface can be a pain in the ass.
• seaboardrr

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  8 years ago

  As a married couple we feel your pain. 99% of the reviews are from a single male perspective so it's hard to judge. Best thing is like lopaw said, just go and assume worst case going in. You'll be out cover and a drink each. Give it an hour or so and if you just aren't getting the vibe you want leave and go to the other one. Don't base it off a single visit either. It'll take a few visits before the people working there see y'all are just out to have a good time and how you act. When we see a couple women out together or a small group of women out by themselves or possibly with a single male we don't know if they're bi, lesbians or what but no one has even messed with anybody anytime we've even been anywhere. Maybe the SC's here are just really laid back and everyone minds their own business but no one has ever bothered women out together. Now there are some times when it's just OBVIOUS they are straight up lesbians but it's not like people are staring at you pointing fingers going "see those lesbians over there?"
  
  The only time we've EVER looked at lesbians shaking our heads is when they sit at the stage and stare and don't tip at all. But we do the same with the single guys too. Just go to have fun together and ignore everyone else and you'll have fun. Dancers will quickly determine if you're just windows shopping or if you're actually up for some fun by the way to act when you stage tip.
• sclvr5005

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  8 years ago

  Good post, seaboardrr. You mentioned a very important detail that we sometimes forget about, which is not forming a locked opinion based on your fvisit visit. No matter who you are, there will be great visits and there will be shitty ones, and that first one is often crappy. Giving a club a second (or third) chance can be the difference between never going back or maybe finding a new fave club.
• sclvr5005

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  8 years ago

  *first visit*
• CaraLynn87

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  8 years ago

  seaboardrr, thanks. not really any info regarding interpretation of reviews, but how to handle a visit. clubs we've been to seem to be ok once inside, but getting in, we feel like lepers at times. dancers also often treat us the same. like you said might take tie for them to understand us.
• seaboardrr

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  8 years ago

  "we feel like lepers at times. dancers also often treat us the same"
  
  You're a couple. Welcome to the leper club. You'll get used to it but after a while you'll figure out which dancers like couples and are willing or even enjoy "playing". Once the waitresses get to know you they'll treat you better than all the single guys as well.
  
  As far as interpreting reviews that's a crap shoot. What a dancer will do for one customer she won't do for another. best bet is just go over and over and become a regular at the clubs you like. Once even maybe twice a month is more than enough and after several visits you'll be fine and get a very good read even better than any amount of reviews could give you.
• Cashman1234

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  8 years ago

  The simple truth is its best to experience these clubs for yourself (or yourselves).
  
  Flip a coin - and give one of the two clubs a shot. I hope it works out - and you have a good time.
  
  I agree - nobody wants to feel singled out - or like a leper.
• Papi_Chulo

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  8 years ago

  Getting ignored is a common complaint by many custies including guys (we all can't be Juice where the dancers practically throw themselves at us).
  
  In SCs one must often be proactive. to get some, but I assume that may be harder for many females custies,
  
  As a guy I'll approach dancers if I feel I'm not getting what I want - other PLs may use a waitress to go ask a particular dancer if she's interested - I assume it can perhaps be more tricky for many dancers to approach female custies especially if rhey just sit there.
• Papi_Chulo

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  8 years ago

  Alternatively you can study San Jose Guy's art of seduction in the front-room
• CaraLynn87

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  8 years ago

  thanks to all. we made a choice on your opinions. worked out pretty well.
• Hugh_G_Rection

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  8 years ago

  ^^^^^ Awesome, we like to hear about Happy Endings around here :)
• CaraLynn87

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  8 years ago

  no ending happy or otherwise. just a scouting visit.