To those who know/frequent a full contact club...

Huh? How is a LM dance emasculating? Lots of customers enjoy low or no mileage dances and I'm sure that they aren't sitting there feeling like a sexual failure. Like most here I seek out extras, but sometimes I'll get a GFE dance from a '10' and enjoy the LM ride. If you are worrying so much about shit like that then you are not only limiting yourself but your probably not having the best time out there.

Maybe I'm just spoiled by the high milage clubs, and maybe emasculating isn't the right word. For me I don't even seek "extras", I just want the most erotic lapdance experience my money can buy, and I do have a great time in high milage clubs but go home disappointed every time I try a new place out and find out it's hands off.

For example imagine a chocolate cake. Someone cuts you off a slice and scrapes all the frosting to a different plate, giving you just the cake part, and informing you that if you make a move for the frosting you'll end up face down in a pool of your own blood.

Frankly, no.

I'm pretty much to the point right now where 1 way contact dances seem like a waste.

Some customers can't get hard from a LD. Dancers know if you are hard or not during a LD. If you have white hair, you might prefer no contact so YOU aren't ashamed you aren't a man anymore. Some customers are paranoid about STDs and glitter/lipstick/perfume on them and want zero contact.

No contact, no fun. Without contact, I might as well stay home, save money, watch free online porn and rub one out.

No, I had an overnight in Orlando last fall. Even though I knew what to expect from reviews posted here, the air dances were even more pointless than I remembered. New Orleans and south Florida have spoiled me, which is a shame, because there were a lot of good looking girls in Orlando

It has definitely changed my reference point for what I need to rate a SC's value.

What's the difference between a no contact private dance and the stage show?

In a full contact club, there's usually full contact for tipping at the stage. Again, once you get used to it's hard to accept anything less.

"What's the difference between a no contact private dance and the stage show? "

The stage show is a stage show, so there's really no expectation of any level of "intimacy" as far as I'm concerned. You're just appreciating their physical conditioning and dancing ability. possibly screening them for VIP later. On the other hand a dance should feel like you're "getting to know them" even if it's in the most phony and superficial way possible. I don't go to a strip club looking for a girlfriend or prostitute, and I don't expect sex but I do expect to look and feel like I just had some(mussed hair and jizz stains).

I can enjoy a no contact dance if the dancer is beautiful and nice. I prefer the extras.

Our local clubs are no contact. I don't care for the private dances, just a gimmick. Only do it as a way to flatter the girl. You can interact with her more when she is on stage, just feeding her $1 at a time.

I've paid them the full per song dance fee just to sit right next to me and talk. That is better.

SJG

Awesome
James Carter Organ Trio - Jazzwoche Burghausen 2004
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I'd rather just tip on stage.

No contact=no money spent by me!

Sorry. I don't go to strip clubs for whitty conversation - and I don't go to strip clubs for the food - I also don't go to strip clubs to sample micro brews. I go for extras - and to arrange OTC meet ups.

Is SJG for real or dies he just troll?

Seems like he's selling a "pick up strippers" system but I'm not clicking his link.

Not only no, but hell no.

I see hot women on the streets all the time & wish I could touch them - thus I go to the strip clubs so I can touch such women - why pay $$$ in the club if I'm still not gonna be able to do what I want/like to do.

For me no-contact/low/one-way contact is worse than not getting a dance at all (no matter how good-looking the bitch is).

BTW JamesSD was being purposely redundant (i.e. why pay just to look & not touch if one can look at the stage for free).

For me no-contact/low/one-way contact is worse than not getting a dance at all (no matter how good-looking the bitch is).

-Exactly

BTW JamesSD was being purposely redundant (i.e. why pay just to look & not touch if one can look at the stage for free).

-Duh, I'm dense. I read it as "if you like stage shows, why be so uptight about a no contact dance".

I'd get upset almost as fast as the banks upset me. After you touch the flesh, no point in dealing with the rest.

Please check carefully, "san_jose_gay" is an impersonation troll.

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Actually, yes. The clubs' rules all vary and even then the dancers' rules vary. I learned to club back in the stage dance only and air dance only days so I can be entertained even with a good air dance, though it is rare for a dancer to be a good air dancer these days. It is actually harder than you think. Plus with so much free porn, the dancer had really be good at it to compete.

I do agree that is is much easier for the dancer to compete, today, with HM, VHM, or UHM dances (with full contact, friction, and whatever else up her sleeve or down your pants). ;) and she is far more likely to get lots of stacked dances, VIP, or repeat business that way. IMO, of course. ;)

Well, it's not emasculating, that's for sure. But no, I won't enjoy it, and won't buy any such.