I kissed a stripper
Hi guys, I'm a newbie here. So a little history about my SC experiences. When I was younger and more naive, I visited a couple of clubs in my city, sometimes alone. I usually had little money to spend and would sit around waiting for the "perfect" girl to show up. There were times I'd get lucky and get really hot girls and other times just go home with an empty wallet and bad memories. On the extremee, one time I banged one of them in the VIP room for only 120 and doggy style while she shook her ass and drained me to the last drop. Another time, a bitch stole 60 out of pocket while giving me BJ.
Never had much intimacy with a dancer until one day I was at high-end club with my buddies. I kept rejecting a few of them because they were not my type. And then she showed up and all my defenses came down (at leas,t she broke it down). She was just gorgeous. I knew right then she had me. I tried to say no but just couldn't. She was so focused on me out of the party. It was as though she was hunting me down and I wasn't comfortable about it. I even tried to redirect her attention by buying my buddy a lad dance. She danced for him but kept her distance from him. Everybody saw she was so focused on me. Then she approached me again and kept working her magic. Then I gave in. We started talking and soon she started rubbing her hands on my chest. . She proceeded to moan in my ears and play with my hair, you know the usual seduction game. I decided to pay her for one dance only just to get her out and get some breathing room
After, we talked some more, smoke a cigarette and drank some. Then she asked me to go to the VIP. By now I was pretty drunk from a whole night of heavy drinking and she worked her magic so well I agreed. We got in the room and right away she started kissing me in the mouth. It was also deep kiss and very passionate. She then unbuttoned my shirt and licked my nipples. Dance more for me and guided my hands to squeeze her firm, natural breasts. She allowed me to feel her shaved pussy without fingering. She even unzipped my pants and gave my dick a couple of strokes! I declined and she continued to dance. After a few more minutes of more passionate kissing the time was up and I returned to my table.
Next night, we decided to go back. The waitress sat us around the same area. I didn't expect to run into her or any action at all but she spotted and showed up in front of me again. She had the biggest smile, even brighter than previous night. She kept staring at me without even noticing anybody around us. It was even more uncomfortable for me but I couldn't resist and was kinda glad about it. We talked some more, drank, and she even started feeding me some food as if I was a roman king. We slipped into a darker corner of the table away from my friends and other dancers. Then it was like making out back in high school again. Instantly she started kissing me all over and guiding my hand. The action was so hot some stupid guy next table started staring at us. I had to scold him to redirect his attention somewhere else. Then we talked and I got to know more about her. She told me her story which I find a little hard to believe but still played along. Then more passionate kissing and by now I had to put my foot down and I paid her for the time and asked her to come back later. Then our limo came and we had to leave. I went to her and asked her for the phone number which she gave me her phone to call myself. I got her number. The next day I texted her and she replied. She wished me a safe flight home and that it was nice meeting me.
Was it just a fantasy we both dreamed and got carried away? I think we both know we can't really have a relationship but I think there was some kind of attraction between us (at least me). If not, I think she is really good at her game of seduction.
Although unlikely,, is there any chance of getting any disease from all that deep French kissing?
What do you guys think?
Never had much intimacy with a dancer until one day I was at high-end club with my buddies. I kept rejecting a few of them because they were not my type. And then she showed up and all my defenses came down (at leas,t she broke it down). She was just gorgeous. I knew right then she had me. I tried to say no but just couldn't. She was so focused on me out of the party. It was as though she was hunting me down and I wasn't comfortable about it. I even tried to redirect her attention by buying my buddy a lad dance. She danced for him but kept her distance from him. Everybody saw she was so focused on me. Then she approached me again and kept working her magic. Then I gave in. We started talking and soon she started rubbing her hands on my chest. . She proceeded to moan in my ears and play with my hair, you know the usual seduction game. I decided to pay her for one dance only just to get her out and get some breathing room
After, we talked some more, smoke a cigarette and drank some. Then she asked me to go to the VIP. By now I was pretty drunk from a whole night of heavy drinking and she worked her magic so well I agreed. We got in the room and right away she started kissing me in the mouth. It was also deep kiss and very passionate. She then unbuttoned my shirt and licked my nipples. Dance more for me and guided my hands to squeeze her firm, natural breasts. She allowed me to feel her shaved pussy without fingering. She even unzipped my pants and gave my dick a couple of strokes! I declined and she continued to dance. After a few more minutes of more passionate kissing the time was up and I returned to my table.
Next night, we decided to go back. The waitress sat us around the same area. I didn't expect to run into her or any action at all but she spotted and showed up in front of me again. She had the biggest smile, even brighter than previous night. She kept staring at me without even noticing anybody around us. It was even more uncomfortable for me but I couldn't resist and was kinda glad about it. We talked some more, drank, and she even started feeding me some food as if I was a roman king. We slipped into a darker corner of the table away from my friends and other dancers. Then it was like making out back in high school again. Instantly she started kissing me all over and guiding my hand. The action was so hot some stupid guy next table started staring at us. I had to scold him to redirect his attention somewhere else. Then we talked and I got to know more about her. She told me her story which I find a little hard to believe but still played along. Then more passionate kissing and by now I had to put my foot down and I paid her for the time and asked her to come back later. Then our limo came and we had to leave. I went to her and asked her for the phone number which she gave me her phone to call myself. I got her number. The next day I texted her and she replied. She wished me a safe flight home and that it was nice meeting me.
Was it just a fantasy we both dreamed and got carried away? I think we both know we can't really have a relationship but I think there was some kind of attraction between us (at least me). If not, I think she is really good at her game of seduction.
Although unlikely,, is there any chance of getting any disease from all that deep French kissing?
What do you guys think?
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Your story is a bit unclear in places with regards to how much you were paying for her services. The cold fact is if the money is good, she may loathe you but act differently.
Text her in a day or two and let her know you still have a smile on your face. See if she actually engages with you or gives you the cold shoulder.
At best she may like you but unless you are a complete loser you generally don’t want a dancer “to like you”; more often than not they are out for what they can get – it’s not wise to get hung-up on a woman that basically sells herself for $$$ and was all over you a few minutes into knowing you.
And at worse she saw you as an easy-target and was trying to get her hooks into you and clean you out; which is usually how it goes down.
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@jamesSD - good advice, thnx. why loathe? if so, that smile sure was deceiving. i only spent around a few benjamins on her in two days, not much.
@Papi_Chulo - thanks, good article
@flagooner -LOL
A couple of hundred isn't much for a good experience - so consider yourself fortunate.
Are you married? If so - don't do anything stupid. If you aren't married - don't do anything stupid. It was a good time - and that's all it was!
Not buying it.
@georgmicrodong - that guy was watching us like a creep. I do realize it was unusual but the girl was getting very uncomfortable so I had to do something. Luckily he was cool and minded his own business afterward. And I didn't wanna get too carried away with her. She was too hot for me to handle already
I don't know about that! If she's ever given a dance to the lion or the vulture you never know what she could have picked up!
(Sorry, but the lion guy makes me laugh! That's some brilliant stuff!)
I agree with sp - a review of the club would add credence to your story.
You took a taxi to the club - and then had a limo pick you up (at the club) to take you to the airport? Just wondering about the details.
-->"Was it just a fantasy we both dreamed and got carried away? I think we both know we can't really have a relationship but I think there was some kind of attraction between us (at least me). If not, I think she is really good at her game of seduction."
When you are in the thick of it, you are completely unqualified to be able to tell if there some kind of "real" attraction or not. You are some guy out for a fun time out: she is a professional whose ability to pay rent, put food on her table, get diapers for her baby, and buy drugs for her babydaddy, are dependent on her seduction skills. Highly motivated professional vs rank amateur. Can you see why her abilities as an actress are far far out of calibration of your bullshit detector?
The question I tell guys to ask themselves: no matter how "real" it felt at the time, in the end are you constantly thinking about her, your heart pounds a little when it does, you're calculating how you might make it back, and motivated to write a TR on a strip club forum for the very first time ... and you PAID her for this (even if she manipulated you into thinking it was your idea to pay her)? If so, you must assume it's all hustle, plain and simple. If she liked you, you wouldn't have paid, period, end of story, only way to know for sure.
Which doesn't mean she didn't like you as a customer, better than she likes most other customers. Strippers are people, not perfect economic actors, and just like you they'll like some of their customers more than others (or maybe, dislike some customers less than they dislike others). Unlike you, many of their customers treat them badly. So, SOME of the girls will give a little extra YMMV to a guy who is nice or fun, just because they'd rather not deal with the uber-douches (or, as one girl put it to me, "I make less money on days you're here, but I'd rather make less money partying with you, than have to deal with everyone else" ... which statement, of course, is itself hustle -- but I do not for a fact that she made less money on days I monopolized her all day).
TL;DR: The overwhelming probability is that it was hustle, but there's indicators you can work your way up her "fave customer" list. That's where I'd boot to, based on just this info.
"is there any chance of getting any disease from all that deep French kissing"
Yes if the chick has herpes on her lips. You can easily cover it up with lipstick/lip balm/gloss etc. and a pain number. Just something to take into consideration.
I think it was just a strip club fantasy. I doubt she'd be interested in creating a real romantic relationship. Especially if she jumps out the blue and starts kissing and stroking immediately. And according to your story, she made no mention of a possible outing nor did you initiate one before you left. At this point it relies on your texting skills because long distance relationships are difficult. You should have tried to gauge her interest before you left. You fucked up bro.
Yes if the chick has herpes on her lips. You can easily cover it up with lipstick/lip balm/gloss etc. and a pain number. Just something to take into consideration."
Short but important note: most people with herpes are asymptomatic (70%-90%), and they SHED VIRUS ASYMPTOMATICALLY. A recent, large study shows asymptomatic virus shedding, in numbers large enough to be infectious, 10% of the time. In short, the notion that you can only get herpes from someone with an open sore is absolutely wrong.
Ya hustled. But hey at least she has a "feel good" hustle some bitches don't work that hard.