MUST READ: A STRIPPER discusses FRIENDSHIP with strippers in this quote

"RL, No, strippers are not your friends. THey are women you are paying to condense their personalities down to a sexual fantasy. While it is certainly possible for a dancer and customer to develop a friendship, it is just as unlikely as you meeting your psychotherapist for a beer. Meaning that while there may be a degree of mutual trust and caring involved, it is primarily a professional relationship which most "normal" people seem to understand the boundaries of. Everyone gets it but you. Unless you are crazy, an idiot, or both its easy to see where the problem lies. It would be advisable for everyone on this board to resolve to ignore you because you obviously have a tenuous grip on reality and are probably dangerous. Nothing anyone says to you in reply is going to be of help to you and probably only spurs your obsession. I say this in earnest, please seek help from a psychiatric professional.