Alright...I normally don't seek advice but I really need y'all to help a brotha out on this one. Okay. That bird that I wrote about in my article was back in town.
She proclaimed how much she missed me since we last saw each other (possibly SS). She also said that she haven't found another customer yet that can take care of her both financially and in the bed room (maybe even more SS). Well, she starts by giving me a free dance, then she actually buys my drink for me on two separate occasions during the duration of my visit. Then to top it off she pays for the VIP room fee for an hour so we can do our little thang. After VIP we chatted for another couple of hours and the next time that she is in town she wants to book a hotel room for a weekend for just for the two of us with all of the free freaky sex that I could handle notwithstanding the fact that I still have to pay for dinner dates and events that we are going to.
I'm perplexed because I have never had any other dancer to give me free dances, pay my drinks, and pay for the VIP room fee all in one visit. I've had free sex from a couple of dancers before though. Me being the street-savvy person that I am, I was getting a little suspicious because this seems to good to be true. Remember, this is a very fine but older woman that is closing in on 40 and doesn't look it neither. This isn't the first time she has bought me drinks or paid for the VIP room fee neither. So my question is this: is she genuinely starting to like me or is this some sort of sales tactic that she is using. I'm not saying that I am falling for her but I've never even had a regular civilian women treat me this way. She did make reference on retiring from dancing and wanting to start a family on more than a few occasions throughout our conversation so I don't know.
A little background on this dancer: She is a licensed beautician and hair stylist that runs her own company. She does hair and makeup for the Love and Hip Hop Hollywood cast and she showed me pictures on her phone to verify it. She has multiple degrees and travels the country a lot. She also does photo shoots and modeling. She still dances solely for fun and enjoyment as she is not hurting financially. She also does some small acting roles in movies, music videos, and television and she even dated a celebrity once (Treach from the old hip hop group Naughty By Nature). She lives in LA and is caught up in the "celebrity" lifestyle there but travels primarily to Chicago, Atlanta, Las Vegas, and Phoenix for business. She seems bougie but she is a cool sweet woman.
Thoughts?
