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What does it take for you to ejaculate?

Nov 17, 2015, 10:12 AM
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shadowcat
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Can you come solely by looking at a naked woman? By sucking her tits or eating her pussy? By rubbing your hands all over her body? By DFK? Or does it take direct stimulation of your penis to get you off?

While all of those things I mentioned might be fun, by them selves they are not enough to make me cum. I've got to have some kind of direct physical contact to my cock.

How about you?

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skibum609

Ordinarily i have issues coming from a handjob or a blowjob, so for me it needs to be bareback intercourse in a few positions for at least 20 minutes. Read a great article on how to train yourself to not come too quick, which used to be a huge issue with men, but seems more like some fucked up source of pride now, and the technique worked great. Nothing like being long lasting at 16 when older dudes were minute men. Of course 43 years later if I have more than 4 beers i have the same sensation in my dick as pinocchio does.

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just_the_nuts

While all of those things I mentioned might be fun, by them selves they are not enough to make me cum. I've got to have some kind of direct physical contact to my cock

Im with you mang, hell being honest i need direct contact on me cocky balls just to get me sum erections

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londonguy

I need direct stimulation, but rarely ever ejaculate by HJ or BJ unless she's particularly skilled.

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just_the_nuts

Im reversal...easierr to jizz durrr bloe job than dick n puss

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just_the_nuts

Read a great article on how to train yourself to not come too quick

I read that articles ass well and knows it takes me 18-24 months wit a skank ho

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Lone_Wolf

Direct and I love a good handsy

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just_the_nuts

Handsy ? LONE WOLF @ come on bro spell correctly :)

Hand Job

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shadowcat

bro? Come on spell correctly. :)

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just_the_nuts

Lol

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MrDeuce

When I was 18, sucking tits or eating pussy would probably have made me cum, like Jim in "American Pie". But now my 61YO wiener requires some sort of contact: intercourse (always), BJ (almost always, certainly bareback), HJ (usually), or "lapgasm" (surprisingly often). Unlike the lapgasm-scorning stallions (invariably from extras-friendly parts of the country) who are so vocal on this site, I can usually cum from a couple or few nice "grindy" lap dances. When that's no longer true, I'll have to find a different hobby :)

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just_the_nuts

Yes crazy joe is full of shit lol

Once i pop 2 viagra knock offs i can cum from jerking off myself at stage

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JamesSD

I need direct physical contact. The rest can get me close, but I need contact to finish.

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san_jose_guy

FS makes me cum, but I have almost infinite control over how soon. I can let the girl go over the top many times, or I can just hold her near the edge.

DFKing makes me hard. For HJ/BJ, it is all lots of fun, especially watching the girl do it. But what actually makes me cum is HJ w/ DFKing. This has always been true.

Overall, as I get older, and I hope wiser, my erections and ejaculations are more saved for when they are needed. I am not just some sort of ejaculatory bomb waiting to go off. Rather, it is all saved until needed, to produce maximum psychological effect on the girl.

I think back now once to when I was with this 15yo virgin, when I was not much older than she. A bit of DFKing in the car, and with limited privacy, and then she starts right in and goes for the zipper of my pants and proceeds with an expertly delivered BBBJTCIMWS. She was really good and I was not expecting that. She said, "I bet you don't know many 15yo girls who know how to do that." She was right. She intended to remain a virgin until 18yo, and had agreed to this with her parents. They were Jewish and they were also one of the few functional and caring families I have ever encountered in my entire life. The girl has since written on her web site that her parents were "weirdo's". She is entitled to her view. But I do not see them this way. I see them as very conscientious and self aware people. They considered themselves Orthodox Jews. They kept a Kosher kitchen, but in appearance only. As some say, it was a Kosher kitchen, but without Kosher stomachs. The food supply was not Kosher. To me this makes perfect sense, as they don't really believe in Kosher dietary laws and they see the Kosher food industry as a racket. But they want the Kosher kitchen because the rituals and complexity remind them of their Jewishness, and they know that this is the only reason for it. And of course outside of the home no Kosher rules or dietary restrictions applied. I thought these parents were neat, and the same for the daughter.

I mention this, because I think when and how one comes is mostly psychological. Lots of AMP girls are world class experts in HJ. So they make it happen. There are also good doing at in the context of 69ing. I like that.

But just for myself, I'd rather FS w/ DFK, or a BJ/HJ combo w/ DFK and HJ for the culmination. But given the chance, I'll always never want to let a girl get away without preliminary DATY.

Again, it seems psychological, but conditions have to be right for me to cum, or even to get an erection. Unrelaxed P4P situations are not always that good. Better if the girl and I have more privacy and time together to get comfortable. I don't go shopping for ejaculation services. The main reason for any sex act is to have an effect on the girl.

Dry humping till completion, yes I have done this, but it is never in a Lap Dance context, it is more just teasing the girl, making her cum before I do, with her on her back, and her knees pulled up. It is me who is driving it.It is in a situation where it is understood that there will be no FS or DATY. So it is more like a substitute or a rehearsal for a future FS.

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just_the_nuts

I love to jerk off at the stage

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JohnSmith69

Direct stimulation of any type will do the trick. I think you have to be very young or inexperienced to cum without direct contact.

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just_the_nuts

Or have a DS

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Papi_Chulo

I need DS (HJ, BJ, FS) – and wearing a condom often cuts down on my ability to bust-a-juice.

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just_the_nuts

Bust a juice

Brilliant papi

Question : what does it take for me to ejaculate ?

My Answer: Candy

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just_the_nuts

@CrazyJoe---> " I think you just make up shit because you're really not doing the things you say you do on here"

For sure, not hard to look at the responses and see who is doing the exact equivalent of SW-style lying & posing.

Completely agree guys. MANG i tell you this board has some idiots.

Go windee da poo on her honey pot and eat dat good good

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sharkhunter

I'd be willing to bet many girls 10 bucks that they can suck my dick at least 10 minutes and I won't get off that quick. While I'm at it, I could raise the bet to 20 and might be ok with losing the bet. precum doesn't count. hmmm, if I was really serious, and raise the bet to 100 for 10 minutes, I wonder how many girls would bite? Knowing strippers, they would still want money even if they lost the bet. Shadowcat could bet them $200 in 20 minutes and if he did his retrograde thing, he could claim he won every time. :) I'm just not sure how many repeat losers would take him up on another offer.

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rh48hr

I've never cum from just DFK, sucking on a girls tits or DATY. I've always needed some direct stimulation whether it's a hj, bj, titty fuck or fs.

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just_the_nuts

That's DS talk LDK

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