99% of the time it’s just business – they want to:
+ text you to come in when it’s slow in the club and they are not making $$$ - they’ll make it sound like “they really want to see you” and that “they really miss you” which all means they want your $$$
+ often times they’ll hit you with tales of woe – anything from “could you please help me out with my cell ph bill this month, pleeeeeease”; to “I’m getting evicted from my place and me and my two kids have no where else to go; can you please help me w/ my rent this one time, pleeeeeeease”; etc
Strip clubs are bizarro world (the opposite of the “real world”) and thus you should not believe 99% of what a stripper tells you especially if it’s related to $$$.
It’s business for them (dancers) and you should see it the same way unless proven otherwise – you can heed the warnings or learn the hardaway.
From my experience, dancers don't volunteer their phone number. I have to ask for it. Maybe if I was a whale, they would volunteer their number. I only spend about $60 on each dancer a week.
^ it may have to do w/ the area or the type of club – IME I get more #s “thrown my way” at dives vs upscale clubs.
I get more #s offered to me than I ask for – not saying I get them every time I visit a club – but def a handful or more a year
yes. if your lucky she will never text you and only answer your texts. if not you may have to block the number so it don't wake you at 3am or some other god forsaken part of the night. be careful.
Dancers want a stable of regular customers for steady income. Collecting cell phone numbers with lies about being interested in the guy, is just a ploy to fill in the register for regulars who will come in when called and bring money.
I don't mind dancers texting me to ask me to come to the club. I know it's because the club is slow and they want my business, but if the girl is hot it's good to know that she's available.
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