noob ready for otc

I always use a semi-direct approach once I've experienced some hot lappers from a particular dancer. During a particularly "grinding" moment that she is enjoying as well, I might say, "this would be even better some place else (but here)". Sometimes she will coyly suggest that we could talk about that. If she doesn't say anything, I generally let it go until the next time we do dances...frequently she brings it up at that point. If not, I will be more direct about my desires.

Go do it first and let us know how it works it

As others have said in other threads – just ask something along the lines if “she does private shows” or ‘if she ever meets customers outside the club” and then you can go from there - the worst you’ll get is a “no”. These girls know the SC game better than anyone and know this kind of stuff goes on all the time – they have probably been asked hundreds of times.