Friend Finder, Ashley Madison, Fling, etc.
DougS
Florida
I think I have definitive proof that these sites are 80% bogus.
I belonged to Fling (was a GOLD member) for about three months. During that time, I sent NUMEROUS messages to the hot girls in the pics from my area. Other getting a few of them to open their private photos to me, I really didn't get much of a response. I DID receive some unsolicited messages "inviting me for extracurricular activities" from several local women - well, okay, three. Two of which, I had many email message exchanges, and pics. One was consistent and persistent enough to get down to the point where we were ready to meet at a restaurant for some adventure sex.
I'm pretty sure it would have happened (at least the meeting part), but I got cold feet. Her pics were 3 years old, and she was thicker than I prefer then. I was afraid that she was not going to be hot enough for my tastes... I know... call me a pussy, but I just couldn't see risking a local tryst on someone that didn't have me drooling. (my OTC girls are all drop-dead gorgeous, in my book, so why lower my standards?)
Anyhow, with that very limited success - if you can call it that, I decided to cancel my membership. Since cancelling, I am receiving messages from girls saying that they want to see my pics, girls sharing their pics with me (but I can't see them without being a member!), and girls that want to meet. It's so much like clock-work, I decided to keep the messages in my mailbox. Sure enough, every week, it's the same.. on Mondays, I get one type of message - every monday, but with a different girls name, same for Tues, and Weds, etc. Those scammers obviously have an email generator that sends out those messages automatically!
Fling and Ashley Madison websites - and probably the rest of them, have such a similar look and feel to them that I'm pretty sure they are produced by the same companies - and maybe even owned by the same people.
I'm convinced... it's a sham! I highly recommend staying away from these sites!
I DO still believe there are some legit people on these sites, but you probably have to have model-looks to get the attention for which I was looking.
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Its unbelievable
I only hook up with 18-25 yr old hotties and I mean hotties
I am in my late 40s and bald
But willing to spend!
Affair Guarantee Program
http://www.ashleymadison.com/app/public/…
I have not tried it myself though...
1. adult dating sites including all mentioned above. Here's a link to a site that reviews them. Be sure to read the USER reviews as well as the site review. Other sites do reviews but this is most up to date.
http://adult-dating-websites.no1reviews.…
2. fake or scammer photos. Here's a link to a site that:
http://www.tineye.com/
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3. NEVER USE ANY REAL EMAIL ACCOUNT!!! Always use a disposable email addy to sign up such as offered thru:
http://www.spamex.com/
That way if:
"Since cancelling, I am receiving messages from girls saying that they want to see my pics, girls sharing their pics with me (but I can't see them without being a member!), and girls that want to meet. It's so much like clock-work, I decided to keep the messages in my mailbox. Sure enough, every week, it's the same.. on Mondays, I get one type of message - every monday, but with a different girls name, same for Tues, and Weds, etc. Those scammers obviously have an email generator that sends out those messages automatically!"
You can turn off the DEA or w/ Spamex you can set a DEA to expire after X messages or Y time period. You can also turn off an addy temporarily then reactivate.
DougS's experience is well documented under user reviews of site named under #1 Most users report that after paying $$ the number of matches/emails drops a lot only to pick up with fakes after cancel.
tineye is a great tool to use on these sites as girls will use fake pics.
www.sugardaddyforme.com
http://sugardaddie.com
http://www.seekingarrangement.com
For all these sites, I have to laugh when it looks like they match a picture of an absolute goddess to a small town in Kansas. Are you kidding me? First of all, everybody in town would know what somebody is doing. Second of all, there are no drop-dead gorgeous women in tiny little towns. There just aren't. So when their computer-generated bullshit kicks out one of those bogus emails from a 24-year-old knockout named "IWantYourCock" from Buffalo Breath, Kansas, I just shake my head. The programmer in Bangalore fucked up again.
No doubt some really gorgeous women hale from small towns as sc points out but, unless they're hopelessly stupid, they DON'T STAY IN TOWN once grown up. They know they got something and move to a wider world to flaunt it & pursue whatever dreams they have at the time.
AND what girl with any smarts would identify her small town of origin while posting her real picture; she'd be talk of town in minutes after posting. Many small towners usually say something like -- "NE Kansas" or "somewhere MO"
Received mostly same "hits". One "26 y/o" sent same set of emails with EXACTLY the same wording each time. All were accompanied by one "sexy" picture for each email invitation, though they were sent in random order for each series of emails.
Same MO each series. Meet me and gal pal for drinks in KCMO's Westport entertainment district 'cause it's near my house. Like older men [sugar daddies!] if hey can keep up.
Pretend college girl hooker and pal trying to score some action OR setup to a scam.
Another picture emailer got more than a dozen hits on Tineye site.
And I got a few emails from another adult date site with the dea email I only gave out to milf-date when signing up. Nuther reason NEVER to use any real email addy for any adult site.