Friend Finder, Ashley Madison, Fling, etc.

I posted a topic several months ago about Ashley Madison, and someone else was asking about the "friend finder" sites about a month ago.

I think I have definitive proof that these sites are 80% bogus.

I belonged to Fling (was a GOLD member) for about three months. During that time, I sent NUMEROUS messages to the hot girls in the pics from my area. Other getting a few of them to open their private photos to me, I really didn't get much of a response. I DID receive some unsolicited messages "inviting me for extracurricular activities" from several local women - well, okay, three. Two of which, I had many email message exchanges, and pics. One was consistent and persistent enough to get down to the point where we were ready to meet at a restaurant for some adventure sex.

I'm pretty sure it would have happened (at least the meeting part), but I got cold feet. Her pics were 3 years old, and she was thicker than I prefer then. I was afraid that she was not going to be hot enough for my tastes... I know... call me a pussy, but I just couldn't see risking a local tryst on someone that didn't have me drooling. (my OTC girls are all drop-dead gorgeous, in my book, so why lower my standards?)

Anyhow, with that very limited success - if you can call it that, I decided to cancel my membership. Since cancelling, I am receiving messages from girls saying that they want to see my pics, girls sharing their pics with me (but I can't see them without being a member!), and girls that want to meet. It's so much like clock-work, I decided to keep the messages in my mailbox. Sure enough, every week, it's the same.. on Mondays, I get one type of message - every monday, but with a different girls name, same for Tues, and Weds, etc. Those scammers obviously have an email generator that sends out those messages automatically!

Fling and Ashley Madison websites - and probably the rest of them, have such a similar look and feel to them that I'm pretty sure they are produced by the same companies - and maybe even owned by the same people.

I'm convinced... it's a sham! I highly recommend staying away from these sites!

I DO still believe there are some legit people on these sites, but you probably have to have model-looks to get the attention for which I was looking.