A lot of moving on...

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gk
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Have some of your favs moved to other things lately? In one of my regular clubs several of my old favs and acquaintances have recently left the business. Some went on to bartending or waitressing jobs, one went to school full-time, one is getting married and another moved out of state to be closer to family. I know this happens all the time, but I'm struck by the almost mass-exodus nature of the departures of some dancers who have been on my short list of long-time favs.

During my last two visits to this club a dancer I've known and liked a long time but have never spent big money with suddenly was being more assertive and familiar with me. I looked around, took note of who wasn't there and figured it out.

She was moving herself up the list! She's usually more subtle, so it caught my attention. I chalk it up to the move-on/move-up factor--plus--business seems way down at this club so a different level of assertiveness seems to be a is a survival tactic.

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Player11
15 years ago
A Rundown on some of my favs:

ATF (28) I have been seeing year and half both otc and itc - Getting married in March to live in - she says will not affect anything. She gives excellent full service with GFE. I do her about 2x week. She is blonde, petite, x cheerleader, big boobs, perky, sexy, bombshell.

Dancer (23) I have been doing since off and on since early 2008 - She has moved into escorting and sometimes dances. I don't do her as frequently as ATF - once or twice a month. She is dark haired, Cajun petite sexy cutie.

Dancer (30) - Did her several times in 2008-09 both itc and otc - she has moved into being a Dental Assistant - Sexy brunette, great body.

Dancer (30) - Did her off and on 2006-08. She stripped to recruit escort clients. She moved to Arizona in 2008 to as Landscape Co Saleslady (if you believe that) and is getting married. Blonde, x drillteam gal, very sexy, loved to fuck cowboy style.


A lot of these gals are moving into escorting as guys are ditching going to the clubs to find pussy and just going directly to online escorting ads like backpage.com

I still like going to the club to chill or just find some different stuff. Gals know what the backpage.com gals are asking and will vary their rates on how they feel they stack up.
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shadowcat
15 years ago
I wouldn't say that I have seen a big turn over but there has definitely been an increase in mileage. I have a dozen favorites at my favorite club. Some I have known for 6 or more years. They are doing shit that I wouldn't have dreamed of when I first met them.Prices are generally up but I have been able to hold the line with my favorites.
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samsung1
15 years ago
maybe it is this new liberal president we have that is inspiring all these women to do better things with their lives lol
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potheadpl
15 years ago
Can't say I've noticed a mass exodus. My favorite club has lost a handful of hot 18 year olds due to pregnancy, but they're always bringing in new talent. Job market is terrible here, so there aren't a lot of options for non-college bound women.

And mileage has increased. Every lap dance is now a full on grope and makeout fest.
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gatorfan
15 years ago
No exodus in these parts either. Girls come and go with the money and this recession has been bad, but most of my favorites keep a good fold of regulars to keep the money rolling in.
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Dougster
15 years ago
Whores come and go. Strip club business is not what it used to be so it's probably harder for them to make a long term "career" out of it.
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CTQWERTY
15 years ago
In Vegas (always big on tourists) they're lining up at the doors to pick your carcass clean.
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DandyDan
15 years ago
It's hard to say there is a mass exodus here in the midwest. I know one of my faves quit after she had her baby and moved somewhere far enough away that I wouldn't expect to see her again there. One quit because legal issues were getting in the way. I know a few have quit at my #2 club, but I have made recent visits to the local bikini/pastie bars and seen some of them at those places.
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sjc
15 years ago
you guys should be happy for them :) stripping is not something you can depend on forever. One day we have to grow up and live normal lives. It's not easy to adjust to (unless you meet that guy that takes you out of the hell hole and into a fairy tale which almost never happens). I'm just saying stipping should just be a stepping stone...if you fav dancers have moved on to better things. be happy for them :)
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potheadpl
15 years ago
It should be a stepping stone, a brief stop before a better future. However, it rarely works that way. I've seen girls go from the strip club to the escort service. And I've seen them quit the stripping biz and come back. Dayshift @ most clubs here is depressing. Lots of strippers in their 40s still going at it.
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sjc
15 years ago
yes you are right (potheadpl)...once women see how easy the money is. I suppose it's difficult walk away from. I have also seen women in their 40's still dancing... I suppose as long as their is a market for them they might as well. Right? lol
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samsung1
15 years ago
sjc, nice to meet you. You look hot enough to work at any ATL club!
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SuperDude
15 years ago
It's getting almost like a take-out escort service at some clubs. And that will get clubs hit by LE.
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gk
15 years ago
Some coments:

sjc, potheadpi: Agree. I'm sad to see favs go but alsos happy when they move on to better things and it works out successfully. Every dancer should have an exit strategy and if possible, a timetable in mind. Some do, but for many it's not that easy.... On coming back--I'm close to a former dancer who just burned out and was ready to move on but is now comtemplating returning because of the potential money/cash flow relative to a real-world job, even in these underperform,oing times of SC payouts. It's really depressing her, but she may not have a choice unless something comes up. In the meantime she's getting into a college program.

"I've seen women in their 40's"...
Just encountered one yesterday. She had spent time is two big cities dancing but was now back to her roots for family reasons but not a marraige or relationsip as she explained it. The interesting thing that came out was that she had danced for several years but was coming back only afdter a 10 year hiatus! Imagne the potential factors behind that decision.
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Player11
15 years ago
I agree stripping should be a stepping stone for them. The saddest thing is to see them still stripping in their mid to late 40's like no other option came along.

My ATF is 28 and common law married (officially in March) and if she is doing me itc / otc then she is probably doing others. She likes sex and the tax free money from what she does. She does not believe in monogamy and her marriage will not change our meeting she says. I see her doing stripping / escort thru 35 or until she gets her law degree.

However, I have seen them leave stripping abruptly (finishing school, gettin married, etc.) so its not easy to predict.

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sjc
15 years ago
thanks samsung1 :)
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