A lot of moving on...
gk
Florida
Have some of your favs moved to other things lately? In one of my regular clubs several of my old favs and acquaintances have recently left the business. Some went on to bartending or waitressing jobs, one went to school full-time, one is getting married and another moved out of state to be closer to family. I know this happens all the time, but I'm struck by the almost mass-exodus nature of the departures of some dancers who have been on my short list of long-time favs.
During my last two visits to this club a dancer I've known and liked a long time but have never spent big money with suddenly was being more assertive and familiar with me. I looked around, took note of who wasn't there and figured it out.
She was moving herself up the list! She's usually more subtle, so it caught my attention. I chalk it up to the move-on/move-up factor--plus--business seems way down at this club so a different level of assertiveness seems to be a is a survival tactic.
During my last two visits to this club a dancer I've known and liked a long time but have never spent big money with suddenly was being more assertive and familiar with me. I looked around, took note of who wasn't there and figured it out.
She was moving herself up the list! She's usually more subtle, so it caught my attention. I chalk it up to the move-on/move-up factor--plus--business seems way down at this club so a different level of assertiveness seems to be a is a survival tactic.
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ATF (28) I have been seeing year and half both otc and itc - Getting married in March to live in - she says will not affect anything. She gives excellent full service with GFE. I do her about 2x week. She is blonde, petite, x cheerleader, big boobs, perky, sexy, bombshell.
Dancer (23) I have been doing since off and on since early 2008 - She has moved into escorting and sometimes dances. I don't do her as frequently as ATF - once or twice a month. She is dark haired, Cajun petite sexy cutie.
Dancer (30) - Did her several times in 2008-09 both itc and otc - she has moved into being a Dental Assistant - Sexy brunette, great body.
Dancer (30) - Did her off and on 2006-08. She stripped to recruit escort clients. She moved to Arizona in 2008 to as Landscape Co Saleslady (if you believe that) and is getting married. Blonde, x drillteam gal, very sexy, loved to fuck cowboy style.
A lot of these gals are moving into escorting as guys are ditching going to the clubs to find pussy and just going directly to online escorting ads like backpage.com
I still like going to the club to chill or just find some different stuff. Gals know what the backpage.com gals are asking and will vary their rates on how they feel they stack up.
And mileage has increased. Every lap dance is now a full on grope and makeout fest.
sjc, potheadpi: Agree. I'm sad to see favs go but alsos happy when they move on to better things and it works out successfully. Every dancer should have an exit strategy and if possible, a timetable in mind. Some do, but for many it's not that easy.... On coming back--I'm close to a former dancer who just burned out and was ready to move on but is now comtemplating returning because of the potential money/cash flow relative to a real-world job, even in these underperform,oing times of SC payouts. It's really depressing her, but she may not have a choice unless something comes up. In the meantime she's getting into a college program.
"I've seen women in their 40's"...
Just encountered one yesterday. She had spent time is two big cities dancing but was now back to her roots for family reasons but not a marraige or relationsip as she explained it. The interesting thing that came out was that she had danced for several years but was coming back only afdter a 10 year hiatus! Imagne the potential factors behind that decision.
My ATF is 28 and common law married (officially in March) and if she is doing me itc / otc then she is probably doing others. She likes sex and the tax free money from what she does. She does not believe in monogamy and her marriage will not change our meeting she says. I see her doing stripping / escort thru 35 or until she gets her law degree.
However, I have seen them leave stripping abruptly (finishing school, gettin married, etc.) so its not easy to predict.