Questions, questions, questions

I have no problem conversing with a dancer. Matter of fact, it was a long conversation with one that made HER my ATF. We had mutual acquaintances and still see each other at times, although not in a customer/dancer relationship.

I love talking to dancers before, during and after trips to the LD room or VIP. I like hearing about their lives, as long as they don't get into a list of personal problems, boyfriends, pimps, etc. I also enjoy talking about the strip club industry with them. Often, with younger dancers, I'm teaching them. I don't mind them asking me questions. However, depending on the location and simply how I'm feeling about the dancer, I may or may not answer entirely truthfully. I'm sure that's a mutual thing, so I don't feel bad about it. I enjoy the GFE, so questions and conversation are a big part of a successful club night.

Don't like answering the personal questions (work, family) mainly because I'm at the club to get a break from all that. I'll try and steer the conversation to other topics of mutual interest - music, movies, sports, the club scene, etc., keep things light and fun, and be the one asking questions. Always some risk in that, however, since once some dancers peg you as a "good listener" they tend to start venting and sharing overly personal stuff.

If I don't know a dancer I will not share personal information regardless of how good she looks. There are too many psychos out there and living in a somewhat small community, I would never want my employer or family know of my hobby. If pressed, I just lie, which doesn't bother me in the lest since I know the dancer's name isn't really "China" or "Naughty". They probably want anonymity as much as I do.

I sometimes get asked a number of questions. Unfortunately the music is often too loud to ask anything but "what did you say?" "I can't hear with the DJ talking so much." "Oh you said the DJ must be on something because he's been going at it talking all day." "What?" "I can't hear anything with the DJ talking so much." A couple of times I was wondering "when is this dancer going to leave?" One dancer popped in my face to say hi and started asking me a question. I was thinking "whoa, who are you? You're acting like you know me or something." Then I said "you dyed your hair, I didn't recognize you for a few seconds."

If I'm willing and able to get into a conversation at a strip club, I sometimes do get asked a zillion questions. If she gets too personal I might start wondering if she thinks the strip club is a dating opportunity instead of a chance to get lap dances.