I've never really been to one before, so having this one as my first was interesting. I went with a female friend who also had never been, and I think because of this, girls just didn't come up to either me or her. It was a little strange, and granted, it was 2 AM, but from what I've read online, it seemed like girls were supposed to come up to us. Regardless, the performances on the pole were sick, and I think they appreciated it when we tipped well, especially since it was super late