YMMV, mine went pretty far

Have been here a handful of times, some dancers are generous with extras, some are not. For example, I once got a dance from a girl who was undoubtedly hot but she previously danced at the no-nonsense Paradise Found and it showed. Just a straight lapdance, no touching with hands.

On another occasion I got a dance from a leggy blond who was eager to lay on top of me while she ground her snatch into my crotch, gave me LFK, and pulled her panties to the side and rubbed her pussy. She gave me her number and we kept in touch so I knew when she was at the club. In following visits, she let me rub her pussy (I love FIV, could do that all day). She ended up having beef with one of the other dancers and a bartender and eventually left the life.

So the deal is YMMV and drama can be a factor.