Aggressive pat down, aggressive tip walk, aggressive bartenders, 7pm 2-3 dancers

First time here. I get there , guy at parking lot charging $3 for me parking my own car there. First strike.

Get inside, security door guy has me dump out items from my pockets into a fish bowl and then they do a wand scan AND pat down (for comparison, TSA only does 1 or the other). He says thanks for complying. , I’ve been patted down at other clubs / night clubs, and by TSA etc….. This was THE worst most invasive pat down I’ve had in my life. This guy touched everything…. Like for what security reason is there to pat down on the eggplant or under the sack, and in between where the sun doesn’t shine?

Search over, he thanks me plenty of times during and after search ( as if he knows it’s an invasive out of place search to do all that.)