Nice lady, but not nice enough for the money spent

This experience was with my wife. Walked in to a very stern doorman (we were the only ones in line so that seemed odd), paid I believe $20 each for cover. Mandatory coat check, I believe 2-3 dollars. My wife walked through the door and the security grabbed her arm by her second step and directed her to a table (I guess you can’t walk around here, which I thought was weird because I’m used to stage tipping). No drink lists or anything, so we just ordered tequila shots as we had no idea what they had and it is table-service only so we couldn’t check out the bar, and it’s very loud so I’d feel guilty making the poor waitress shout the options for us. There is a plexiglass stand on the table with a button that says “couples getaway” so I almost immediately pressed the button. The waitress chose a girl for us as my wife hadn’t seen any dancers actually perform yet so she didn’t have a preference (and I wasn’t about to be questioned about why I chose a specific dancer). She sent over a girl who was likely not legal age to drink, so we chatted for a minute and when she went for her stage set I went and asked the server for a different girl. We were brought into a weird room with a manager who was telling us mandatory tip prices as well as room charges - we settled on a semi private for I believe $500. The minute we sat down, the dancer took off my wife’s top and started making out with her. After some more drinks and the dancer bringing out party favours, she talked us into doing a full private room for $700 where her and my wife made out topless and my wife gave her a handjob (she was rubbing on my wife as well but she was on her rag so her pants stayed on) She made a few remarks about disgusting men who pull out their penis in VIP and how she’s gotten physically aggressive with a few handsy men, so I didn’t feel like I was invited to this particular party. She kept ordering more shots on our tab, forced my wife to take her number then insisted she isn’t a lesbian. She also cried and told us about assaults she’s experienced…she was clearly very messed up on multiple things that night. My wife really liked her but that was a $4000 night where I didn’t even get a turn.