This was my first visit to any adult club ever, so bear in mind I have no frame of reference and no experience... and possibly no standards : ) But overall I felt this was a relaxed place with friendly girls. They chatted with me and were very cool with me being a total newbie, some even giving me a little tour and answering what must have been very basic questions. Honorable mention to Natalie and Jessica on this count. Lily at the bar was also very nice.
Some of the girls were more attractive than others, but that's life, they are real people, not ideals. If you treat them like humans they treat you nicely in kind. They're trying to make a living, just be polite, everyone recognizes that people have different preferences. "Pushy" vs "extroverted" are all in the eyes of the beholder. Some people like boobs, some like butts. Just be polite.
Eventually I settled on some behind-the-curtain time with Riley, who did not disappoint me. I knew exactly what to expect and what not to expect, and she put me at ease for some time to get my mind off my troubles, and in the end that's what it's all about.
Overall I stayed for about two and a half hours, which seemed about right.