It was just ok

First time at a strip club and went with my husband. I’ve been wanting a lap dance (and more) and he wanted to watch. We were flying out the next morning and decided to spend the evening at a strip club. After researching several in the area, we settled on Spearmint Rhino because it seemed couple friendly.

The biggest issue is the rules the city of San Jose has on the club. No nipples can be exposed and only 1/2 of their ass can show. So, they all have to wear pasties. Some of the women do a great job with making their outfits meet the requirements and still look good; others not so much. Because of the city requirements, not sure we would return.

As I mentioned, first time for me. Only second time for hubby (his first was 25 years ago.) we had no idea what we were doing. The girls mostly sat at the bar chatting up guys or sitting together at back couches. Not much circulating. A couple of girls we weren’t interested in came and sat down and chatted with us for a while. Again, I don’t know how this is all supposed to work. But we weren’t interested and they chatted for a LONG time. Are you just direct and say you aren’t interested?