Paterson Tour [ Stop 6 of 7 ]

So first time in Paterson, took bus from NY. Stopped at Sunrise as well as 4 other places near market street before coming here. The others were mainly a Latin crowd, where here was mostly black. One thing I must say, the energy here was a movie / music video strip club vibe none of the dancers were on their phones, they were making rounds and the ones on the pools were dancing like they were auditioning for American Idol. What I loved most about this place was the music, I discover a few great tracks while I was there. Meaning the DJ put in effort to set the mood rather than sticking to top 40s and the usually stripper tracks that are way past their time, and the music wasn't too loud that you couldn't make conversation. No cover charge by the way at any of the places I check out ( Thursday night ).

I was approached by a younger girl who was a bit sweaty but I liked it, she had just came off stage and was very chill and friendly. I guess the move her is to pay ones and the dancers just dance on you bar side ( more on that later ). We danced for a while and next thing you know I burned through my ones and needed more. Stopped the dance to get some from bartender, she went to get changed and made her way back so I offered her a drink. She asked to do a shot with me but me drinking the entire night I told her I was good, though still ordered two, as when I go to regular clubs in NY, I always make a point to get the bartender a shot anytime I order one as a good gesture since they are serving everyone there drinks. So I got two gave one to the bartender who was surprised but not hesitate to drink it. Then she and I went off to the back room and did two dances which were a lot of talking. So is really good at handling people, but not that she took advantage, was just really comfortable with her.

Went back to front and she came around again just to say bye and I offered another shop, meanwhile bartender came out and said "what none for me"... which through me off as it was a bit distasteful since it put me in a spot where it's hard to say no to the person sever the drink. I get it we say our goodbyes and another dancer jumps on dancing with me, doesn't say name or anything. I am just giving ones giving ones, but not at a fast rate that I was loosing much. The upstairs club is small and the lap dances are off to the side behind a curtain, while I am dancing with her I notice a guy go back there with two dances. On Latin and one thin dark skin dancer. So I am like man they must be having fun / girl on girl show ( and cramped since its a small bench and curtain with little space for 2 people as it is ), and I ask the girl I am dancing with for a dance in the back. She is distant the entire time, shy, uncomfortable. Was getting more physical in the front, which is must be the scene there, they just grid for dollars and not everyone one wants to do a private dance. So the dance ends and she goes ghost and I can't help but to feel that I wasted a bit of cash.