Take your time and shop around.

I made a few more trips to this club. I was pleased to have several women come by my table to either talk or to offer me a dance. One dancer asked me to buy her a drink right off the bat (complete turnoff). Another sat on my lap and began to tell me her hard luck story. I had another "hustle" me for extra dances when I told her that I only wanted one. And then there were the few who were courteous enough to actually treat me with respect. My advice when visiting this club is to take your time before you buy a dance. Chances are you'll get a visitation at your table from something that you like.