Labor Day Wkend visit

Actually came here on Monday evening. I come here from time to time to see how things have changed. This time there were about 20 dancers. I like thick, curvy girls who look dangerous. Sometimes this club has a lot of either really thin girls or really fat, out of shape girls all seemingly working at the same time. This night it really was a mixed bag but I didn't see any real superstars in my book. A short curvy white girl (who may be mixed with something else) caught my eye. She wasn't gorgeous but she did seem very flexible and fun-loving. She was hanging all over this Asian guy for a good while. After they went to the VIP and some time after that I got a dance from her. Her name was SNOW and she was friendly and the dance wasn't bad but not really a big deal. Before this I got a dance with a black girl, can't remember her name, but she was about 5' 8" and had the best, round ass in the place. We had met before. She gave me a decent grind and was pretty cool. Another black girl, who was thin with blonde hair approached me a couple of times. She wasn't my type so I thanked her but declined both times. She was nice and was probably puzzled why I wasn't into her. She had that Barbie Doll look and I'm sure a lot of guys would drool all over her but not me. Many times when a black dude comes in and dances with one black girl the others assume that's his preference---but that's usually only part of the case according to most of us guys. It's not usually just ethnicity. (Maybe to some it is) I like women who have a certain look but also a level of playfulness, confidence, and doesn't take herself too seriously. No matter how good she looks, if she doesn't have a command of social graces, she's a turn-off. It's amazing how many ladies forget or don't realize this very important aspect to social interaction. Some are just young, some are too jaded, and some are just clueless even when it's pointed out to them. Every club has it's own vibe and one either fits in with that overall feel or they have major problems. DeJa Vu COI used to be a UHM club but nowadays, at least it seems to me, things have really toned down. These things travel in cycles. The Mileage may go underground and you have to really understand the social cues to know who is who to get the most bang for your buck----literally. I'm not always a mileage hound and if that's what's on my agenda then I go to a club where that's the vibe. If I just want a nice grind and a place to check my brain at the door, then this place will do.