True, there is a lot of...

True, there is a lot of presure here to buy drinks for the dancers. One will barely sit down next to you before a waitress arrives asking if you want to buy her a drink. Don't waste time tipping the dancers on stage unless that's all you're there for. Better to wait in the back and wait for the girl you want sit down. If your not interested, just tell her you're looking for a specific dancer. Once you think the right one has sat down next to you, it's probabably worth the $20 to get a lap dance before deciding whether you have the right dancer to spend on a trip to the vip. Once there, all that has been said is true. However, you should make sure, before you go back, that she knows what you're looking for and what you expect to pay.