Ilbaic you’re an idiot who’s a white knight loser sticking up for feminism so get out of here or are you female yourself? Take a look between your legs and let us know.
@freesample
“number of women who signal that they're marriage material but absolutely are not has also gone up. A.k.a. the false positives: looks like marriage material, but are not in reality. This includes the massively faked redemption arc born-again-jesus bullshit that they pull at around 30 or almost 40 if they're slow”
I laughed at this. The number of these types is increasing exponentially. Having realized that being a whore fails to get them anything but the dregs of society (look at who strippers date, pimps, drug dealers, ex-cons) they find Jesus and try to find a guy they can deceive.
I recently went on a date with one and wasn’t buying her bullshit for a minute, but I was curious about her game and I spotted it immediately. Now the women in here can call me a hypocrite for going to strip clubs, yet I’ve never visited a club while in a relationship, ever in my life.
I told one of my dancers friend about the Jesus girl and her first response was “She’s totally full of shit, she’s a closet whore wants to date a good man now”
They can’t even fool other women. Hilarious.
You’re in the same boat as a lot of us. I stopped caring about real dating when I realized the pickings were slim. It may sound hypocritical as this is a strip club board but…I never found a woman I could trust enough and with the qualities to be a great mother to start a family. Women these days are brainwashed to either party or slut it up from college on. This isn’t totally their fault, it’s also the lack of strong men in their lives. Then they want to settle with a good man at like 35 or even older and for a lot of us guys we don’t give a fuck about her at that point.
May sound harsh but it’s true. Then there are the career type go getter types which are a pain in the ass to date, because their fundamental psychology is they want to compete with men or just hate men.
I don’t want to out myself, but I make a comfortable living, have a high income, and am decent looking. If we were living in another time, where women were more incentivized to get married, I’d find a 25ish woman and do it. Unfortunately they don’t exist outside of sugar dating which is just prostitution light anyway.
The other problem is age gaps are shamed in our society. Look at how they pile on to Leo for dating 25 year olds. If some of these girls were smart, they’d say to hell with what society thinks and marry an older successful man who is stable and can provide a good lifestyle.
Some strippers and sugar babies think this way, but they totally fail at it because they are continuing to whore themselves out and think nothing is wrong with that. Well, a man has to trust you, and there’s no way for a man to trust you less than when you’re grinding on other men or worse servicing other men. Having several ex boyfriends who are complete dregs of society doesn’t inspire confidence. Neither does expectations that are totally fucking bonkers.
Since the dating game is so messed up and I can afford it, I simply find dancers or sugar babies I like to keep me satisfied. It’s like having a girlfriend without the headache, although even going this route I’m super picky at who I see. Most dancers are gross to be honest and unsafe. I’m talking drug use and STDs, but if you screen properly with some ground rules you can find some good ones.
I wish the culture supported strong marriages and families, but outside of ultra religious communities (Orthodox Jews, Amish, Trad Catholics, Mormons) it doesn’t. Those communities have their own issues since you have to follow things in a cult like fashion. That’s not for me, I can’t lie to myself that way.
As a side note, these dancers alter their bio all the time to keep their lives more private, which is understandable. I’ve had them tell me different ethnic backgrounds on different visits.
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