Comments by Gary7

All the dancers were asians when I was there. Can't really say whether they were Japanese or not. I put my face between their breasts when offered. Didn't use my mouth, don't know if that would be possible. You might be able to negotiate if your Japanese is up to it.

Went last night and had fun, so I guess it wasn't too soon.

Went last night. Raven was there and I talked to her. Basically, she thought her story might help someone else in a similar situation. Other dances said they wouldn't put their picture out in public story like the IDS one.

Last time I was at Night Moves, which has been a while, but since they moved, I thought all the dancers were quite attractive, at least a 7. No grinding during lap dances, although plenty of contact and some touching allowed. Had the same experience at Brad's in Indy last time I was there, so maybe the no grinding is a post-pandemic in Indiana thing. Pre-pandemic at the old Night Moves location LDK was not that unusual, but not even close last time at the new location.

"If it's not fun for you, then it's too soon." See, there is good advice on Dear Abby, I mean TUSCL

Answer: Yes, rarely, usually only when I traveled.

Not a troll, making a big effort to get out and figure out my new world. Like the "Dear Abby" comment. I don't think I'm vulnerable to SS, jaded and cautious by nature. Probably 3x the age of the average dancer. Not sure I'll ever stop grieving at some level. Wasn't really expecting any useful advice, but you never know about TUSCL. Long time lurker, 1st post.