article comment
5 years ago
I want to make something absolutely clear here. I am not romanticizing the relationship, or fantasizing about a relationship, or crave an emotional connection with the Lady. I am fully aware that it is their job to make their customers feel at ease through small talk. And I am under no illusion that under other circumstances, and in other surroundings, we probably would not be having a conversation.
The point of my article is that with this particular lady, I had gone past the point of engaging in my usual small talk with dancers. I enjoyed her intelligence, wit, company, and her grinding skills. But, i'm looking to balance the physical and the Intellectual/emotional aspects.
review comment
5 years ago
I wish there was a way to edit these reviews, reading it again, i realize there are a couple things i left out, or would like to expand upon.
1.) Each dancer is on stage for three songs. The first song is clothed, the second song is topless, and the third is most often fully nude (there have been one or two occasions where i noticed that the girl did not remove their bottoms for the third song).
2.) The DJ typically announces the next two dancers ahead of time, this is helpful if you want to either stick around and see a new girl or ATF on stage, or get out of your seat for a bathroom/smoke break or extended VIP session.
2.) There are typically less dancers working the day shift and Sundays. Be aware that during these slow times the stage dances are typically tamer, and there are 3 song breaks in between each dancer's set. Meaning the stage will be empty for 3 songs in between girls.
3.) Most of the ladies i've taken to the VIP were good about sitting with you and talking before the next song begun, and for asking if you want to continue after a song ends. But I would definitely recommend keeping track of the songs yourself. I find it useful to say at the end of each song "That was #".
4.) Dances are $20 per song, the average song is about 3 minutes. Just like their stage show, the first dance is typically fully clothed, the second dance is usually topless, and the third + song is fully nude. I say typically, because it depends on the girl, your relationship with the girl, or your negotiating before.
5.) Unlike the 905 lounge, there is no drink minimum, but the waitresses are very attentive and constantly circling around to see if you need a drink or top-up.
6.) If you're a big tipper, regular, or extremely lucky, you may have a chance to snag a lifetime membership card that confers the cardholder and a guest free entrance (no cover). This does not apply to special events.
7.) Stage tipping at most Canadian clubs is rare, mostly due to the fact that our smallest denomination is $5 (or that we're cheap). But, the bar has just started selling US singles if you want to make it rain.
8.) If you don't have singles, but you still want to show your appreciation and get up close and personal with the dancer, you are encouraged to climb up on stage (there are no stairs, use the chair and ledge), lie down in the middle of the stage, and put the $5 bill in your mouth. The dancer will clamber over you for a few seconds. This sometimes includes some combination of groping your package, simulated sex positions, and rubbing her boobs in your face.
9.) Expansion on the $20 charge to enter the VIP. This is a one-time charge, you get a wristband that is good for the entire evening. It is worth it is you are seeking dances from multiple girls, but not exactly economical if you only take one girl for 1-2 dances. To purchase the wristband, ask a dancer for a private dance and she will first take you to the corner of the bar, where you will pay the bartender and have the wristband applied.
10.) In addition to the regularly scheduled girls, there are typically independents working on busy nights. These ladies will not be giving stage dances, but they typically offer extras in the VIP room. If i recall correctly, it was $100 for a HJ and $150 - $200 for a BJ