Comments by ChadT (page 2)

Thanks houjack. When I first started going to stripclubs more regularly to observe I was actually told by dancers either in WV or Pittsburgh's club erotica to wear sweatpants instead of jeans. I honestly had not encounterd this "disdain" or "creep factor" for these types of pants until the internet was involved. I was explained to by dancers that dancers favor sweatpants or other soft material because it will not chafe them like denims.

Also if you've ever talked to a male dancer or seen any in interviews you never get the BS "lapdance an art form" from them. They pretty much straight up say women enjoy having the dancer's above average appendage bouncing in their face or rubbing on them. It would not be different with a female dancer dancing on a well endowed customer. It's biology.

If you were to believe the "dancers" on stripper web why do so many female dancers pay for and enjoy getting lap dances themselves from well endowed male dancers?

Well rick the reason I posted it here was because I read the junk on stripper web. We all know that women do one thing and say another. I'm not going to get into all the reasons why women act like they don't like cock or to play with it provided it looks safe and clean in a non judgmental environment. The reasoning for the double talk and society's role in causing it is for some women's study professor to explain not me. But I specifically posted it here because I knew I would not get a truthful answer over there. Women can write all they want but instinctive biological reactions can't be ignored, such as goose bumps in an 80F room. That's an obvious sign of arousal. I'm looking for objective answers was there a difference in reaction? The difference doesn't exactly say that all strippers like lap dancing on a big dick but what it does say is that those over on stripper web are being dishonest when they say they don't notice. That's the real purpose. A woman can still hate giving you a lap dance if you act rude to her no matter how big or small you are, but to say most don't even notice and many don't enjoy it when they find one is borderline disingenuous.

Lol when you start getting behavior like that you gotta nip it in the bud or those females think they can do less and less for your money. After a while if you don't do anything these females won't even take their tops off during private topless dances. Don't ever let them get too familiar with you. You'll always waste more money than you should. They are not there for you.

Oh i understand that papi chulo. Thats why i showed that particular dancer what was in my wallet and basically said in so many words she wouldn't get a dime out of me ever again. I know she hated that because the next night she definitely tried to get my attention stopping shy of blocking my line of sight of TV with her ass. I also noticed her looking in my direction out of the corner of my eye when she was with another custie, probably looking ti see who i give my money to. To me real world logic should apply to a stripclub. They are a regulated Business not the black market. When I go to MacDonalds, clothing store or car dealership i expect a certain level of respect for my money because these places are trying to sell me sonething. The same goes for a strip club. But these days many clubs across the country populated by lazy and or rude women. Women that aren't paying their way through law school or their CPA liscense but women that failed at the "Macdonald's job" failed at multiple CNA jobs. Stripclubs or gentlemen's clubs as they used to be called were overall better than they used to be. Only a decade and a half ago when i was 18 many were light touching even at the stage . Most are no touching now even in the lapdance section and its because of the "safe space society " we are curently living in. And tbh more men need to be serious about taking the Gentlemen's Club back from such females because its not just a fun time place , its a piece of masculinity that people like PG county and other feminine minded political markets are trying to take from men. In about 5 to 10 years you're going to see more gay and ladies clubs opening up in a lot of these areas that were anti gentleman's club , and these clubs will never be forced to abide by the same rules as the Gentlemen's clubs are currently. Touching and prostitution will be decriminalized for them but not you because guys didn't take stuff seriously. Ignoring these females altogether in a way is capitulating to bad behavior when they need to be checked and a minority of em like that anyway.

Forgot to mention this particular dancer had the nerve to tell me she didn't make any tips that night. I wanted to tell her maybe instead of fucking with the "fresh dope boys" over the men with salaries might net you better steady tips, but again i wasn't trying to make waves . Also this club is the first time I've encountered a "lapdance only " after hours. Most places particularly where alcohol is involved try to thow people out the moment the clock strikes closing time. They usually signal this by either cutting all the dancers or cutting all the booze. But in the case of showcase at 3 am many of the dancers are still around but you must be getting a lapdance to stay in the building. I heard that really the place doesn't close sometimes until 5am. Is this normal for clubs? Does the "lapdance after hours/ after party" basically mean "extras only?"

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After I pay my recent excursions off and maybe see Chevy one or two more times at the hopes of establishing something mutually beneficil otc I'm just going to save up to exclusively get a nice hotel room in Pittsburgh or Philly and visit erotica/blush or Risque respectively. The PA clubs are way better maintained. Plus low wages in PA keeps drink prices cheap especially in pgh. Lap dances still are 20 in pa so the selection of dancers in the clubs I mentioned is good or better than showcase. Both cities are an equidistant 3 he's from the DC metro area so not a bad weekend drive. What I'm reallying learning from showcase is the DMV SC scene is terrible compared nationally. Some of it is management's fault because they don't put the money back into the club the other problem is local government not seeing it as the great revenue stream it is.

The lap dances suck by the way that's why no one buys them. They aren't nude, not even topless. I spent a total of $300 on dances over the course of 2 or three visits with a dancer named kat, and I barely even felt her ass in my lap. It was mostly just leaning over me and maybe a bounce once or twice. Unless they do some kind of training with the dancers it really is a better sports bar than a stripclub. They might want to reconsider their business model.

Theres a bit of racial tension. While there are some black guys around there the more hood dancers are kind of cliquish and have their own group of regular guys that dress in stereotypical hood attire. I believe a week or two ago i overheard a fight almost broke out between some marines and hood thugs. Hispanic guys also tend to come in as a single group and are social amongst themselves. The only people I've come across as being friendly to everyone are older white guys. I don't think there really are true gentlemen's clubs anymore. Its all a bunch of delusional guys thinking they will screw the dancers and competing with each other along racial lines.

Still seeing the same behavior and then the girls complain they do not make enough tips or no one buys dances. No one wants a dance from someone that gives off the feeling they don't want to be there or makes you feel like you are an inconvenience, not to mention a number of them don't have good shapes for being "thick" builds.