If “too nice” means that you’re being polite and mild mannered, and treating her like a princess, then yes...you won’t get past first base toward OTC. Girls at clubs meet the nice, gentlemanly types all the time, but they often come across as lonely and needy, bitching about their wives and other woes. And girls are smart enough to know that the “nice guys” they meet have an agenda. It becomes too obvious to them that they’ll eventually ask for her number. And those are the types who probably ARE the rapists or killers you speak of.
A “non-customer” means that you can create the impression that you’re just there to chill without getting caught up in the sex mirage. And obviously not be like all the other dudes trying to score “extras” and wagging their tongues at the rail. Being “nice” and friendly won’t get you any traction. Having a little edge and a “don’t give a fuck” attitude will. Be the guy who can bust her balls and treat like your bratty sister, with a little bit of James Bond mixed in. Tease...flirt...be fun to hang with, etc. Don’t spend too much alone time with her at the club; otherwise, you’ll be seen as the clingy dude who’s keeping her from making money. Throwing cash at her will just fill her pockets and won’t incline her to just freely spread her legs for you. But a couple of dances WITHOUT attempting to finger bang her may be enough to still make the OTC prospect possible.
Of course, if she’s a hustlin’ whore who’ll suck any dick for a fee, then you’ll probably score some action. If she’s a 9 however, that means you’ll have to put forth more effort. She probably has a couple dozen other guys looking for OTC from her every night. If at any point she ends up being a gold-digger, then just move on and go for another 9.
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