Comments by Raizo1212

Also, I've never had sex with this girl. When she would message me after I saw her at the club and I thought it was going to lead to sex I would decline. I myself have my own fear of attachment and didn't want to get too deep. One more piece of info. Basically how she got the hooks in me in the first place. Like I said originally been clubbing for about 3 years and never had any urge to come and see the same girl just was having fun. It was a Saturday night, pretty busy. I had talked to her once earlier in the night but declined as I had just arrived. However an hour later or so we crossed paths again and I asked her if she wanted to go. Spent about 2 hours in the vip with her, drank, laughed. Finally I had to go as my friends were waiting at the casino for me. This is when it happened. I was standing at the bar sending a text when I felt a hand on my shoulder thinking it was another girl I kind of ignored it but I turned and it was her again. She grabbed me right there and gave me a deep passionate kiss and that's how she got me.

To date I had declined all of her requests. It was only today that just out of curiosity I met with her for an afternoon coffee. I feel things went well. Only expense was of course purchasing her coffee for her. Other than that we chatted for a couple hours and that was about it.

I'm convinced now that there are at least some genuine feelings. Just have to figure out if I'm willing to go through the head ache lol.

Hasn't asked for money as of yet. All I have given her was what I spent at the club.

Thank you all. I appreciate the advice and anymore if someone else has any. Another thing I'll add is that she told she was in school when we first met. I was skeptical becuase I had heard the student line a few times. However as time has gone on she has proven time and time again that she is legitimately in school. She is entering her fourth and final year and says that she has every intention of leaving the club once she is finished. In fact the only time I have seen her otc is when I've driven her to school. Not sure what I'm going to do but I will be sure to post an update. Thanks you all again.

Sorry meant to post that. I'm 27. When we first met she told me she was 26 but it was about 3 weeks into knowing her that she dropped her stage name and told me her real age which is 33.