Mrbigstuff

dtec I hear you. without some sort of trust you have nothing. Just a shell of a relationship with maybe some good sex. there's good girls out there that are also good in the sack. I just wish they were easier to find lol.

Thanks guys. A lot of great advice. I knew I should have walked away months ago. I just got emotionally invested and was trying to rescue her from a bad relationship. It didnt help that she is beautiful and a unicorn in bed. I guess I was just hoping that someone on this site may have worked at Sapphire back then and knew her.

Here's more background. She is no angel! Since her stripping days she has had a history of getting in relationships with men that had to have either alot of money or high social status and money. She also always cheats on them looking for men that can upgrade her situation. She also has other "friends" that she isn't interested in sexually but she hangs out with them for free expensive dinners, gifts, free and one that is a really good friend that gives her a thousand dollars here and there if she needs it. She said she wanted to settle down with me and change her life telling me about all of these things. A couple weeks ago I caught her out with one of the non sex friends (he's ugly and little money). I kicked her out the next day. She now wants to come back. so my dilemma is I might be willing to put up with a little bit of crap if she is trying to change and give her some time, but if she really was a hooker basically that will be a deal killer for me because that is such a massive lie.

Rockstar666 long lasting relationships are based on honesty and trust. She did not tell me she was a stripper until after I had already fallen in love with her.

So are you saying she just must be a whore because she's working the business? Or are you saying I shouldn't judge someone even if they have given 1000 blowjobs for money?