I have also noticed that it takes a long time for the girls get ready. I have also noticed that I am frequently disappointed when they finally do get out and get on stage and dance. I imagined them to be much better looking than they turned out to be.
Because of the anonymity here, I think you can be completely honest here, and a lot of the guys will believe you. If you are saying something that is generally unbelievable, or something that is typical SS, then you probably won't be believed, even if you are telling the truth, By reading the comments here, I think some of the guys will never believe anything any dancer ever says.
As far as ITC, for me, the smarter and more honest the better. The best times I have with a dancer is when I can feel that I have made a personal connection, and that I have enjoyed the conversation. Conversations are better with people who have a wide range of knowledge. My BS radar is on overdrive when I am in the club, since I know that most of the time, the dancers aren't being honest. If they are decent looking, and we can have a normal back and forth conversation, and are willing to spend some time with me, they usually get in the door with me. If they come in and act like I am the hottest, sexiest guy in there, I know it is BS, and no matter how good looking they are, they won't get anywhere with me.
I see the dancers falling roughly falling into two camps.
The first camp is those that use dancing as a springboard to a better life. Those are the ones that dance to send themselves through college, or develop a skill of some sort, or make wise investments with their money. For them, there is no other way that they could make the money they can with dancing, and dancing can be a great choice for them.
The second camp is those that don't develop any skills and mostly blow their money. In a few years when their looks have faded and their bodies have broken down and their ability to make lots of money dancing is gone, they don't have a plan B. I think in the end, dancing actually hurts these women more than it helps them.
Dancing can be financially a great choice, and even emotionally is some cases, as it can help the women become more confident, self sufficient and able to understand men better. I don't think we should necessarily encourage young women to dance, but they shouldn't be discouraged either if they go into dancing for the right reasons.
On a side note, I have a 20 year old daughter who I would not want to see dancing. I know that is hypocritical, since I am a strip club enthusiast.
Extreme beauty for a woman is very fleeting.
At age 20, they can have men falling all over themselves doing whatever they can to get their attention.
At age 40, most are just middle aged women that don't get a second look, and are viewed as maybe looking good for their age.
At age 60, they are invisible.
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