Comments by notreallyme

bvino wrote: "I prefer the anonymity of the clubs . The whole reason for clubbing is the unconnectedness of it. I do not want the additional complexity or emotional negotiation of swinging." There are a few kinds of non-monogamy, ranging from sex-only with no emotional connection (open relationship), to sex with a full emotional relationship (polyamory). There are swingers all along this spectrum, but my sense is that, by far, most connections are purely sexual, often one-time connections at a club or party. Most swinging is as anonymous as a strip club, (assuming you don't form a relationship with your dancer)..