Fitzonie

Mrs. can enjoy being pretty exposed in VIP (and is hot), but not at the rail. At the risk of sounding really shallow it does really depend on appearance for both of us. Attractive and cool - very hot. Neither and sloppy drunk - not so much.

Many times; it's actually where my wife discovered her "bi-curious" side. She always chooses the dancer based upon both attraction and their willingness to play with both of us. We have had full blown (pun intended) threesomes, and usually get an invitation to meet outside to continue the party. She likes to watch me with the dancer as well. If she is into it, it doesn't get much better. If your wife is new to this you will need to move slowly and build her comfort level. If you have any jealousy issues (we don't) be sure to set and communicate limits. Many dancers have related problems with couples, and we always assure them that we are okay with anything either or both of us do.

As a couple we have often found afternoons better for attention. There is less competition, and older dancers (30+) are more likely to play.

Not if your wife is watching. Or if she is also having sex with the stripper. Or if the three of you are having sex together and she is helping the stripper with you. And yes, I know what a lucky man I am.