Candid Interview All The Way!
This method works out for me almost always, I'd say like 95% of the time. Also take into consideration that I have been going to clubs regularly for the past 10+ years so I have a bit of intuition when it comes to such matters...
I try to be subtle about it at first and just ask, "What can I expect from a VIP every dancer is different"
Any response overly vague and I'll just leave that dancer alone, such as "I'll take care of you" or "We'll take care of each other and have a good time"
I had a dancer once say "Your going to get dressed like me (she being naked at the time) then were going to rub our bodies all over each other till you explode, everywhere" This is a good sign. Any similar response is a good sign. I've also had dancers respond "Do you have a condom"?
Which leads to me my next course of action. When they come up with whatever vague description they want to come up with I'll respond "Will I need a condom" There's no vague response to that one. Either I will or I won't. Now weather that includes the whole menu or just a BJ is still the risk but most the time it's the entire menu.
On another note. I have had a girl repeatedly tell me how she's "not like the other sluts in the club" only to have her give up the full menu in the VIP.
I have had it happen to me where a dancer passed the "Test Drive Interview" with FLYING COLORS. Long story short she slipped willy out during a lapdance and BBBJ for a while. Only to get VIP and get none of the same action again. Since that day forward I always just ask. The "Test Drive" I guess is good to narrow your search cause I find it hard to see a dancer giving a very low mileage dance then going all in during a VIP.
I am however lucky enough to live next to a lower-middle class redneck town. The particular club I usually frequent literally every dancer allows free roaming of hands to every where (aside the kitty for a few of them) during a regular lapdance. I would imagine pulling my methods in a "upscale" club would yield the same results.
#11 I am currently trying to get away from this woman. My ATF had gone MIA for months so she became my #2 but now my ATF has returned. And she is such a bitch. She literally goes up to girls and tells them that I'm "her customer" so that they stay away from me. Worst part is she works like every f***ing day that I can go in. I've even called to see if she was working to avoid her and go in on a shift she wasn't working. Multiple times they have said she's not there but when I arrive TADA look whose there.
The only next step I can think of is to A. Go to another club, but I would like to start seeing my ATF again. or B. Tell the manager to get her to leave me alone, but I don't like confrontation and would like to avoid this at all costs. (and keep the #2 incase of stormy weather)
She has my cellphone number and the other night I went in for just a few minutes and got 2 dances from some random girl and she texted me within 15 minutes angry about me getting dances from another girl then leaving.
I know she just wants the money I'm not stupid. For maybe a few days I contemplated an OTC visit but I know that's not going to happen. Truthfully I am just tired of her she's not really even my type and I have no idea how I let her become #2. (Yea I do it was all the extras)
She's cool as hell. Has an awesome personality and whatever but If I wanted a monogamous relationship that I wanted out of and still had to pay for I'd get a girlfriend.
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