badboylooking4dirtygirl

Jb might have written a book about something somewhere ;) eh?

I can totally empathize with your situation; so your final input is that you hate it when an unworthy guy tries to establish rapport with you. Just last week I went to a club on a whim, found a smart and socially savvy young woman who initiated rapport with me; We had a few drinks and I was waiting for her to come back when I was accosted by the female version of the over enthusiastic males OP describes. In short I lost sight of the gem in the rough thanks to pointless small-talk. Talk about frustrating.