Comments by Sammy77

"She may even take time out of her work routine to talk to you for free. Are you around her same age? Are you attractive (be honest)? Maybe if all those things came together, you may be right in having a suspicion that she likes you" Thanks for replying Stiletto!! To answer your questions we are around the same age, I am probably a few years older but not many and not wanting to sound like an a-hole I've always done well with women. I didn't get chance to speak to her after her stage dance as it was almost 4am and the bachelor was pretty wreaked so we left before she came back which was annoying to say the least. I'm thinking of going back in a month or two just to see if she remembers me. I know I probably shouldn't (and I won't pay her for anything) but how many chances do you get to meet your perfect woman?

"How do you know it was her Real Name? She could tell you anything." It was strange really as everyone was calling her one thing but when I asked her what her name was she said it was something else. At the time I thought they were all lying (as they probably should) but I looked her up using the name she gave me and there she was in several obvious places, very easy to find and confirm just like anyone with their full name. For a bit of good man music try the Killers 1st album.

Thought I'd update this for anyone interested. So I decided what the hell I am going to look her up, she had made it easy by actually giving me her real name which was a surprise to be honest. Turns out she has a boyfriend so it was all about the money. Rookie mistake on my part for even thinking there may have been more to it but you live and learn I suppose, it was a cool moment so I'm just gonna enjoy it. Thanks again for everyone's input.

Thanks Alucard, hopefully she sees this on her own and decides to comment or PM me as I wouldn't want to pester her.

Am I correct in assuming everyone that has posted here is male? I was kind of hoping for a female perspective (ideally a dancer) although I doubt it would be different I'm still intrigued for some reason.

Yeah OK it's pretty much what I thought then. The shocking thing is it almost worked on me and while I'm not a regular at these places I thought I was fairly clued up to most of the tricks of the trade! I guess I maybe able to take a bit of comfort that if she wanted me as a "RIL" I can't have completely repulsed her, especially considering I only gave her £40 for the 2 dances and I did tell her I live a long way away. Thanks for the replies everyone.

RIL?

HAHAHA! Yep I get what you're saying and I agree I'm a moron for falling for it!

Thanks for the replies all! Just what I thought really although I still don't really understand it as surely drawing that much attention to looking at me could put off others but I doubt I will ever understand what goes on in any woman's head. To be honest there is an S.O involved and a good one so I will draw a line under the whole thing now I think. Like I said though this girl literally ticked every box for me which is something I don't come across very often. Thanks again.