I am a California woman who has been married for 22 years. We go to these clubs together, I consider myself to be bisexual curious, with a fully supportive husband. I enjoy going to get the occasional lap dance from a couple of clubs that are in my home state, but when I was in Arizona, went to one I thought really got an impolite rating from some obviously nit picking person. You know, dancers get out there to make that money to put themselves through school, have full lives they are trying to live and are human beings, not just toys. No one is "perfect" if we all were, then if would be a very boring world. All I can say is that before you are going to give a club a nasty rating, be sure that you know what you are talking about, is it the club, or your own jealousy?