sketchball

I don't have a system. Sometimes you get lucky. >.> I've had hundreds if not thousands of lappies over the year. This is a first for me. Blind leading the blind my friend. xD

Thanks all for the comments. If there is one thing this thread has taught me its that no one has a bloody clue. Many think they do. I think the wisest that responded were unsure and hedged their answers. Nevertheless, I appreciate all answers. It makes makes natural sense though. If I don't know and I experienced it, then how could you? I think with thoughts of the heart, the people in the circle always know more than people outside of the circle. Emotions by there very nature cannot be explained, only felt and later told they were felt, and I genuinely believe they were there for both of us. There were a few people that stated thoughts to the effect of "what does it matter? If you enjoyed your time with her and she gives you more, money or not it's worth it." You have given me the confidence to keep texting. Thank you. We had a long conversation today where she opened up after I expressed my concerns. She told me that ideally she would want a few dates to see if we are compatible enough to get into a traditional relationship, but since I'm not in the area and already have a girlfriend, that is off the table. She is not interested in being a fling on the side, and if we get into any relationship, she wants to know the boundaries. So we agreed to talk and see if a variant of a sugar relationship is appropriate. She does not want any money, only my time and my word that I will cover all expenses to see her at some regular interval. She did make the joke that of course she would not complain if I bought her the "occasional gift, and her favorite jewelry is Tiffany's!" It made me laugh. I believe her. Whether I am being played the fool or not is now irrelevant as the fantasy is real enough in mind. If I believe it, well that's real enough for me. Thank you all, and I'll check in again down the road to let everyone know what came of this.

Agreed. We all want what we cannot have. Whole reason so many of us with wives/GFs go to the strip club anyway. We want to 20-something strippers that we can't have because we're old and fat and our old ladies would kill us.

@papi. Good point. Maybe she just wants a sugar daddy.

I have a sugar baby at a dive bar. I get her all night including sex behind the curtain included for 300. But sometimes I want to go to the premiere bars and see 50 hot girls nude. This thread isn't about strippers in general or getting bang for your buck. It's about the possibility that one particular stripper actually likes a customer. Surely that happens. Strippers are sometimes still little girls at heart. they have their crushes and dream of a knight in shining armor to change their life... That's fine. Some don't want men and love their life. It depends on the girl. I'm just trying to recognize if I'm being manipulated or if this is one of those (rare) situations where the girl does like a client. But as always. Thanks.