Taborca

Otto-ur relationship was already out of the club or in club for all that?

"me: Oh, I'm a little depressed and was hoping you could cheer me up." idk maybe it's me, but I've always felt it best to never seem desperate or needy around woman. I think this can be expanded to never appear weak/whiny/depressed either. I'm sure some of them assume you're a loser because you came in the first place, but there's no reason to give cause or amplify such things. You could always say you broke up with someone if you wanted to but doing it in a cheerful manner or if you can't do that just avoid the subject especially at first.

"n something in her grabs the guy mentally or emotionally he keep throwing money like a maniac and forgives her the lack of some or most of the qualities described above" Well that would be foolish. If you connect well first time, sure of course you return the next week. After that you have to decrease visits. Come back in three weeks then every month or every other month. At any time if she seems disinterested or not into it, find someone new. Have her sense loss of income stream impending to judge the reaction as well.

Chemistry or the perception of it